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覺察與慈悲的親子教養 線上雙語課程

Conscious and Compassionate Parenting, Bilingual Online Program

| 導師：Wendy Schulz & 李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee
| 時間：Oct. 6, 7, 15, 16, 2022
| 人數：51

這次課程我們有 51 名學員註冊參與：其中 43 名來自中國團隊， 8 名來自加拿大海文團隊的註冊平台。加拿大海文註冊組的 Morag 通知我們 Haven 將在 2022 年底縮減人力，並在冬季時間要關閉校舍 – 因此這個課程也會是我們最後的一次的全球中英雙語課程。我非常喜歡與 Wendy 老師的合作和共創 — 這個課程收到了學員們積極正向的反饋。Wendy，感謝妳提出這個課程構想，所以我們有機會彼此認識，成為共同帶領人，也增進了我們之間的友誼。 很感謝妳的兒子 Jamison 現身在我們最後的一節課 — 許多學員都是通過「青年領導力」課程認識了 Jamison。 當 Jamison 和 Wendy 共同呈現在一個屏幕上時，真是美好的畫面。由於加拿大海文正處於轉變調整的過程中 – 我衷心地感謝這兩年來每一位支持「全球中英雙語線上課程」的朋友們，還有所有在幕前幕後的工作人員。希望我們都照顧好自己，持續活出我們從海文學院 The Haven 學習到的禮物。

This is to provide a summary report on the subject program – We have in total 51 registrants: 43 from The China Team and 8 from the Haven. With Morag’s notification on the Haven’s closure during the winter season – This Parenting Program is our last Bilingual Program. I enjoy very much the teamwork and co-creation with Wendy – this program has been receiving positive feedbacks from our participants. Wendy, thank you for bringing in the program idea, and I get the opportunity to know you as a co-leader and as a friend. I also appreciate Jamison showed up during our last session – many of our participants know Jamison through our Bilingual Youth Leadership Program. It’s a beautiful moment to have Jamison and Wendy together on the same screen. As Haven is changing and transforming – I thank you and all the staff members working on the front and behind the screen. Wish we all take care and carrying on the gift we have been learning from the Haven.

生活的目的在增進人類全體之生活，
生命的意義在創造宇宙繼起之生命。

一切都在迅速變化的今天，即使是教養兒女也是如此！您是否發現自己所採用的親子互動方式對您或您的孩子已經不太適用？

也許您會發現自己幾乎是技窮，無法有效地應對眼前教養子女的各種挑戰，無論是：技術方法，面對各種身心症狀：抑鬱、焦慮，紀律問題，如何設定界限，等等。正如我的母親常這麼說：「很不幸的，教養孩子這件事是沒有使用說明書的！」 真希望有個「使用說明」，如果真的有，我們可能會更成功、更足智多謀，在父母與孩子的連結上會更緊密。我們如何學會為人父母的呢？帶著榮耀父母的心，課程中我們將一起來發現從自己的父母那，我們學到了那些教養方式。也通過觀察社會文化對教養子女的規範，我們可以發現自己的價值觀，我們重視或不重視什麼。因此我們可以為教育兒女開啟了一條新的道路，以全新的方式來認識我們的孩子。在一個安全、不羞愧，尊重個人界限與隱私的環境中，讓我們開始深入探討這個主題，讓我們從身為父母的優勢力量中出發，體會到充足的資源，並以雙方都想要的方式與孩子建立共同成長的親子關係。

課程重點

  • 認知為人父母的挑戰和優勢，是什麼阻礙了您成為自己希望成為的父母？您如何善用自己的優勢面臨挑戰？
  • 通過諸多途徑來檢視我們從哪裡獲得養育子女的方法 — 以慈悲的心情，我們將探索哪些是有效的，而哪些是無效的。
  • 借助課程中提供的工具，我們開始製定一個新計劃，加強與孩子間的交流，從我們的優勢出發，因此我們可以一種健康的方式向前邁進：了解我們的孩子是誰，不是我們希望他們成為什麼樣的人，開始接受他們真正是誰，他們與我們不同的地方，並開始支持他們成為真實完整的自己 — 即使我們不見得喜歡。
  • 這個課程會有機會彼此聆聽分享，導師和學員們有機會交流自己的故事和現實生活中的經驗。這是一個共同創造的學習環境，我們希望為豐富的成長之旅打造一個安心分享相互學習的容器。
  • 本課程歡迎對三歲至青少年親子教養有興趣的家長、父母、祖父母、專業人士，或對此主題有興趣的朋友們一起加入 — 課程中會有大組與小組不同的學習環節，我們會將學員依自己有興趣探索的同年齡段孩子來做小組分配。

每次的課程將以不同的焦點來深入我們的主題，我們邀請學員在課程與課程間持續地反思落實所學。課中所有的探索練習也將尊重個人不同的選擇以及尊重界限的方式進行。課程的形式包括：

  • 身心合一的靜心冥想
  • 內在整合的主題簡報
  • 創意與經驗式的學習
  • 小組分享與自我省思
  • 回家作業的落地實習

合作夥伴
這是一個加拿大海文和中國團隊的跨國合作！感謝双方的合作我們才有機會將海文精彩的課程持續地從加拿大本土推廣到全球的平台上。 建議您先下載WeChat軟體，所以您可以更方便地收到我們的課程錄影以及課程提醒。

Everything is changing so rapidly these days, even parenting. Are you finding the style of parenting you have adopted is not really working for you or your child?

Perhaps you find you are ill equipped for parenting challenges that are in front of you like technology, depression, anxiety, discipline issues, setting boundaries. As my own mother used to say, ‘unfortunately children do not come with an instruction manual’. If only they did, we might feel more successful, resourceful, and connected as parents to our children. How did we learn to be a parent? In honor of our own parents, we will discover what we learned about parenting from them, by looking at cultural norms around parenting we can uncover what we value or not and begin to build a new path for parenting and to meet our children in a fresh way. In a safe, shame free and confidential environment we can begin to explore this topic in detail so that you come from a position of strength as a parent, feel resourced and are connected with your child in a way that you both want.

Program Highlights

  • Identify our parenting challenges and strengths, what is in the way of you being the parent you wish to be? How can you bring your strengths to the areas of challenge?
  • Through various pathways examine where we get our parenting skills from – with compassion we will explore which ones work and which ones don’t.
  • With the tools offered in the program we begin to build a new plan to a stronger relationship with our children and come from a position of strength as a parent, so we can move forward in a good way: knowing our child for who they are, not who we want them to be and moving into acceptance of who they are, where they are different from us and begin to support them for who they are – even if we don’t like it.
  • The program will create opportunities for stories and real-life experience sharing from both leaders and participants. With the co-creative learning environment, we wish to build a safe container for a rich journey of growth.
  • This course welcomes parents, grandparents, professionals, or people who are interested in parenting with children between ages 3 years to young adult to join. There will be different learning arrangement of large groups and small groups. We will group participants with interests in children of the same age range.

Each session will focus on different topics, and you will be invited to continue your reflections in the time between sessions. These explorations will take place in an atmosphere of respect and every person’s choice is respected. The format will include:

  • Embodiment Meditations
  • Teaching and Presentations
  • Experiential Exercises
  • Small Group Sharing and Reflections
  • Take Home Tools and Practices

主導老師 Leaders
Wendy Lee Schulz B.
Ed, CCDP and Certificate in Counselling Haven
is passionate about all things related to communication. Understanding and being understood as a way to intimacy and close loving relationships. A parent to two sons ages 23 and 27, Wendy dedicated herself to becoming a parent she could be proud of by reading books, attending groups with other parents, taking what was good from her parents and attending courses and is now reaping the rewards of respectful and individual relationships with each of her sons. Wendy is a Parent Coach for parents who have children with anxiety, a Job Coach, and an entrepreneur.

溫蒂·李·舒爾茨
Ed、CCDP，加拿大海文學院心理諮商文憑
溫蒂對與溝通連結相關的所有事物充滿熱情，她認為「理解和被理解」是建立親密關係以及愛的關係的重要途徑。身為23歲和27歲兩個兒子的母親，溫蒂因自己多年來致力於研習精進成為更好的父母而感到驕傲，她與其他的父母一起參加團體成長課程，也從自己的父母那裡轉化挑戰為優勢，並持續在課程中學習成長，今天她成為自己可以引以為豪的母親，現在她正在收穫著這美好的禮物，與她兩個兒子間彼此尊重且人性化的親子關係。溫蒂的專業是：為有焦慮症孩子的父母提供的親子教育的教練、職涯發展教練，也是一位企業家。

Wen-Shwu Lee
CEC, Dip-C, MBA, BFA, BA
Wenshwu is passionate as a corporate trainer and coach she is both personal and professional. She embraces life fully and keeps enriching herself in cross cultural environments. Her leading style is based on humanity, on which she effectively integrates business trainings with personal experiences. She applies ideas of coaching, counseling, and creativity in the series of heart-brain integrated leadership development programs. She leads and assists personal growth workshops and leadership programs in China, Taiwan, and Canada. In these programs Wenshwu witnesses so many people breaking through fixated patterns, transforming suppression to useful resources, and living fully in their unique beings. Wenshwu is one of the Directors on The Haven Board and a member on the Core Faculty. She is also the founder of The Train Coaching & Counseling Corp. in Taiwan.

李文淑
加拿大The Haven学院心理谘商文凭、企业教练硕士认证、企管硕士、艺术学士、文学士
文淑是一位热情, 专业, 平易近人的导师, 她拥有跨东西文化的丰富人生阅历. 她的教学以人性为出发点, 在她热情关怀和洞察人心的教学风格中, 文淑有效整合了她的企业背景与生活经验, 巧妙地将教练领导, 心理咨商, 与创意启发等不同的技巧融会应用于身心整合与全人启发的人才培育工作中。多年来她在加拿大, 中国大陆以及台湾教授个人成长以及领导力开发课程, 引导学员从桎梏的个人模式中, 转化压力为有效的资源, 蜕变出每一个人的独特魅力与全方位的领袖风范。文淑目前是加拿大著名的潜能开发学院 The Haven Institute 的董事以及核心导师, 同时她是乐泉咨询顾问公司The Train Coaching & Counseling Corp. 的创办人。

Partnership
This program is a partnership between The Haven (Canada) and The China Team. We are grateful of the co-sponsorship so we can continue to offer transformational programs through The Haven and internationally. It is recommended that you download WeChat so that you can receive the recordings and program reminders more easily.

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転化內在的批判 發現完整的自己 線上雙語課程

Befriending Your Inner Critic and Finding Wholeness, Bilingual Online Program

| 導師：Louise Amuir & 李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee
| 時間：August 12~20, 2022
| 人數：77

這次的課程我們總共有 77 名學員註冊參與 – 中國平台有 61 名，加拿大Haven 的平台有 16 名。 由於我們有兩位西方人參與 – 要特別感謝 Wendy (Schulz) 老師自願協助帶領我們的英語小組。 並且我對 Louise (Amuir) 老師深表感謝 —感謝妳整合了妳的兩個課程：“轉化內在的批判”和“以創意表達的方式提升覺察力”。 這也是我們第一次將藝術相關的創意表達課程帶到全球雙語線上課程的學習平台。 根據我們收到的反饋，我認為我們成功地將這兩個精彩的課程以線上的方式呈現給我們全球的觀眾。 Louise 老師，感謝妳的創造力和靈活性。 我非常喜歡和妳一起工作和共同創造。

This is the summary report of the subject program. We have in total 77 registrants – 61 on the China Platform and 16 on the Haven. Since we have two westerner participants – we appreciate Wendy (Schulz) volunteered to assist our English-speaking small group. AND – my deep appreciation to Louise – thank you for integrating your two programs: “BYIC” and “Awareness through Creative Expression.” This is also the very first time we bring creativity art expression to the Bilingual Online Platform. Based on the feedbacks we have been receiving I think we successfully brought the two wonderful programs online to our global audiences. Louise, thank you for your creativity and flexibility. I enjoy very much working and co-creating with you.

轉化內在的批判 – 發現完整的自己
Befriending Your Inner Critic and Finding Wholeness

歡迎加入路易絲 Louise Amuir 和李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee 的線上學習旅程！讓我們一起用深入溫和充滿趣味的方式來探索自我。我們將結合創意表達、薩提爾Satir、海文Haven、黃煥祥博士Dr. Ben Wong 的景觀模型，以及身體定位的理論與實作。

課程中我們將會有音樂、藝術、肢體、冥想、歡笑和故事等環節，用來幫助建立或重建你與內在批判的友善關係。你可以想像成你和自己的批評者間的調解，或者是與自己負面念頭開一個創造性的會議。如果你曾經告訴自己不夠好，曾經阻止自己去做，或去擁有自己真正想要的東西，那麼這個課程會是個適合的選擇。我們將深入探索負面信念的起源，在深刻且完整的自我中，漸漸找到與這些聲音建立新關係的方法。我們將與可以為自己做出選擇的力量一起工作，打破舊有的自我挫敗模式，製定新的途徑來體現自信，從而清晰地導航我們的內在生命景觀。

每次的課程將以不同的焦點來深入我們的主題，我們邀請學員在課程與課程間持續地反思落實所學。課中所有的探索練習也將尊重個人不同的選擇以及尊重界限的方式進行。課程的形式包括：

  • 身心合一的靜心冥想
  • 內在整合的主題簡報
  • 創意與經驗式的學習
  • 小組分享與自我省思
  • 回家作業的落地實習

課程主題

  • 與內心深處的自我連結 — 接受、相信自己並探索阻礙它的因素。
  • 與他人的關係互動中與深層的自我保持聯繫以培養傾聽和連結的能力。
  • 描繪你的內心世界 — 包括那個討厭的內在批評家。使用紙張、文字和圖像來探索自己獨特的生命歷程。
  • 聲音、風味和選擇 — 深入內心世界、旅遊指南提示、轉變消極的自我對話、建立自信、練習當下意識、學習有意識的語言。
  • 整合左右腦的同時發現自己的創造力，學習平衡大腦半球、釋放壓力，並從中尋找答案。
  • 體現做出選擇的力量。
  • 探索在創作過程中至關重要的輕鬆與趣味。

合作夥伴
這是一個加拿大海文和中國團隊的跨國合作！感謝双方的合作我們才有機會將海文精彩的課程持續地從加拿大本土推廣到全球的平台上。 建議您先下載WeChat軟體，所以您可以更方便地收到我們的課程錄影以及課程提醒。

Join Louise Amuir and Wen-Shwu Lee in this deep and gentle exploration of the self. We will be working with a blend of creative process work, Satir, Haven, Ben Wong’s landscape model and somatic grounding.

Music, arts, movement, guided meditation, laughter, and story will be applied to help you build and rebuild relationship with your inner critic. Think of it like mediation between you and your critic or facilitating a creative meeting of the minds.

This program is for you if you have ever stopped yourself from doing or having what you truly want by telling yourself you aren’t good enough. We’ll dive into some of the origins of that belief and find ways to build a new relationship with that voice in the context of your deepest and WHOLE self.

We’ll work with the power of making your own choices to interrupt old self-defeating patterns and map out some new pathways to embody confidence and clarity navigating your inner landscape.

Each session will focus on different topics, and you will be invited to continue your reflections in the time between sessions. These explorations will take place in an atmosphere of respect and every person’s choice is respected. The format will include:

  • Embodiment Meditations
  • Artistic Expressions
  • Teaching and Presentations
  • Experiential Exercises
  • Small Group Sharing and Reflections
  • Take Home Practices

Topics and Highlights:

  • Connecting with Your Deepest Self – accept, trust yourself and explore what gets in the way of that.
  • Develop listening and relating by staying in touch with deepest self while in response to others.
  • Mapping Your Inner Landscape – including that pesky inner critic. Use paper, words, and images to explore your unique life process.
  • Voices, Flavors, and Choices – going deeper into the Inner Landscape, travel guide tips, transform negative self-talk, build confidence, practice present moment awareness, learn intentional language.
  • Discover the creative parts of yourself while integrating your right and left brain, and learn proven techniques for balancing your brain hemispheres, releasing stress, and finding answers within.
  • Embodying the power of choice.
  • Explore the playful spirit so essential to the creative process.

主導老師 Leaders
Louise Amuir
DipHC, DipHGF
Diploma of Haven Counselling and Diploma of Haven Group Leadership
Louise is interested in creativity and expressive arts as a means to connect with self and others. Louise is committed to diversity, inclusion, equity, reconciliation, and building collaborative processes. Louise’s varied life experiences in theatre, writing, art, dance, music, working with street youth, youth in receiving and treatment homes, parenting, relationships, and meditation bring humor, mindfulness, curiosity, and play to her work with people. As Haven faculty, Louise leads/co-leads: Befriending your Inner Critic; Inner Wisdom for Women; Awareness through Creative Expression; and Haven New Year visioning programs and assists on numerous core programs including Come Alive, Living Alive Intensives I, II, and III. Louise has extensive Satir training, delights in surfacing the Shadow, and always leads with heart. Louise works collaboratively in core Haven program teams and in special Haven teams both in China and in Northern Canada with First Nations communities. Louise has been associated with The Haven since 1989.

DipHC, DipHGF
加拿大海文學院心理諮商文憑，加拿大海文學院團隊帶領文憑
路易絲對創造力和藝術表達極感興趣，長年以此作為與自我和他人連結的方式。 她致力於多元化、包容性、公平、和解的理念發揚以及建立團隊協作流程。路易絲多樣的生命經驗包括了戲劇、寫作、藝術、舞蹈、音樂、街頭少年的工作、中途治療之家的青少年工作、親子教育、人際互動和冥想等方面，這些豐富的生活經歷為她與人們的工作帶來了幽默、正念、好奇心和趣味。身為 海文的導師，路易絲所帶領或共同帶領的課程有： 與你的內心批評交朋友；女性的內在智慧；通過創意表達提高覺察力；和海文學院新年願景計劃。同時她也積極協助眾多海文核心課程的規劃，包括：潛力甦醒、活潑生命 – 階段 I、II 和 III。路易絲接受過完整的薩提爾訓練，喜歡陰影探索，並且總是用心引導。路易絲與海文的核心團隊合作，工作的足跡遍佈加拿大，北美原住民社區，以及中國。自 1989 年以來，路易絲一直與加拿大海文學院保持聯繫。

Wen-Shwu Lee
CEC, Dip-C, MBA, BFA, BA
Wenshwu is passionate as a corporate trainer and coach she is both personal and professional. She embraces life fully and keeps enriching herself in cross cultural environments. Her leading style is based on humanity, on which she effectively integrates business trainings with personal experiences. She applies ideas of coaching, counseling, and creativity in the series of heart-brain integrated leadership development programs. She leads and assists personal growth workshops and leadership programs in China, Taiwan, and Canada. In these programs Wenshwu witnesses so many people breaking through fixated patterns, transforming suppression to useful resources, and living fully in their unique beings. Wenshwu is one of the Directors on The Haven Board and a member on the Core Faculty. She is also the founder of The Train Coaching & Counseling Corp. in Taiwan.

李文淑
加拿大The Haven学院心理谘商文凭、企业教练硕士认证、企管硕士、艺术学士、文学士
文淑是一位热情, 专业, 平易近人的导师, 她拥有跨东西文化的丰富人生阅历. 她的教学以人性为出发点, 在她热情关怀和洞察人心的教学风格中, 文淑有效整合了她的企业背景与生活经验, 巧妙地将教练领导, 心理咨商, 与创意启发等不同的技巧融会应用于身心整合与全人启发的人才培育工作中。多年来她在加拿大, 中国大陆以及台湾教授个人成长以及领导力开发课程, 引导学员从桎梏的个人模式中, 转化压力为有效的资源, 蜕变出每一个人的独特魅力与全方位的领袖风范。文淑目前是加拿大著名的潜能开发学院 The Haven Institute 的董事以及核心导师, 同时她是乐泉咨询顾问公司The Train Coaching & Counseling Corp. 的创办人.。

Partnership
This program is a partnership between The Haven (Canada) and The China Team. We are grateful of the co-sponsorship so we can continue to offer transformational programs through The Haven and internationally. It is recommended that you download WeChat so that you can receive the recordings and program reminders more easily.

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潛力甦醒 實體課程

Come Alive – Onsite

| 導師：李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee, 陶曉清 Cora Tao, 姚黛瑋 Debbie Yao,
| 時間：7/14~18, 2022
| 人數：36

今年 7 月，我們在台灣又舉辦了一次成功的「潛力甦醒 Come Alive」。 參加總人數為 36 人。其中 15 人是四月份潛力甦醒課程的複讀生。 因此，導師團隊（文淑，Cora，Debbie） 在原來的 Come Alive 課程結構上增加了界限的教學和練習。 我們收到的反饋大多是非常好，同時我們也收到了關於時間壓力的回饋。 總的來說，學員們很感謝老師們用心嘗試平衡新舊學員間不同深度的教學。 導師團隊不斷創新的試驗也包括：在今年 10 月和 11 月將推出的「潛力甦醒線上版」 — 這是為不方便上實體課程的朋友所設計，線上潛力甦醒的規劃目前正在進行中，請拭目以待。

We had another successful Come Alive in Taiwan this July. The total participants are 36. Fifteen of them are repeated students from the April Come Alive Program. Therefore, the leaders’ team (Wenshwu, Cora, Debbie) added boundary teaching and practicing on the original Come Alive structure. We received mostly very good feedbacks, and we did have a few feedbacks on the limited time for the topics. Overall, participants appreciated our efforts and heart trying to balance the teaching between old and new participants. The next program the leaders’ team is experimenting is to bring Come Alive online in Oct. and Nov. – the planning and marketing are in process. Stay Tune …

Come Alive in Taiwan
潛力甦醒在台灣舉辦

帶著無比興奮的心情在 2022 年我們將要把加拿大 The Haven 最受歡迎的核心課程 Come Alive 「潛力甦醒」帶到台灣了！首先要感謝我們在台灣的主辦單位「中華好好說話，學會」，謝謝所有工作同仁的努力，共同促成了這次精彩的成長之旅，「潛力甦醒」是海文學院最受歡迎的經典課程，它幫助了數以千計的人開啟了他們在個人以及專業上的成長與蛻變之旅。

我們的學員來自各行各業、不同背景、經歷、各種生活方式和世界各地，這些朋友加入了Haven課程後，他們體驗到生命的流動以及在關係間深刻的學習。竭誠地歡迎您一起加入海文的豐盛學習之旅！

Come Alive 的魅力在於它獨特的歷史，課程中有著名的海文核心模式介紹與體驗。在專業導師群的支持和指導下，您有機會學習並實踐海文學院的溝通模式、全我模式以及共鳴模式。課程中我們設計了各種團體活動、互動討論以及經驗式的學習機會，會在大組和小組不同團體動能中穿插進行。

「潛力甦醒」適合我，如果 …

  • 我想加深我的自我覺察並突破自我的框架限制
  • 我準備好培養更多的自我疼惜和自我接納
  • 我想體驗成為完整且真實的自己 — 得到思想、身體和精神上的自由
  • 我願意學習和實踐成長與轉化的溝通模式
  • 我想要有價值的見解來增強我的健康和福祉
  • 我想突破自我限制模式，過我想要的生活
  • 我好奇自己在人際關係、社群和世界中的位置
  • 我想重新發現生活中的快樂和意義
  • 我想要更和諧、充滿愛和充實的關係；我想知道什麼是真正的親密
  • 我希望提高專業技能；成為更真實的領導者，增強我的軟實力，並與我的同事建立更好的關係
  • 我想改變現狀並嘗試不同的東西……

“第一次，我對自己感到很舒服……”

課程亮點：

  • 在安全與支持的環境中度過 5天，專注於自己。
  • 有機會向他人學習、建立連結並與他人建立深厚的情誼。
  • 學習結構由精神科醫生黃煥祥（Ben Wong）以及是醫生也是針灸師的麥基卓（Jock McKeen）共同研究開發出，採用了獨特的東西方整合的方法。
  • 通過各種方法進行創意與體驗式的學習：身體工作、呼吸、冥想、不同的活動，以及認知技能的發展，等。
  • 是一種培養自我疼惜和更深層自我覺察的有效方法。
  • 40 年來持續成功，有來自世界各地的數以千計的參與者。
  • 精選的專業課程導師群，他們在The Haven海文學院以及各種專業上都受過高度培訓。
  • 無與倫比的支持和高比例的參與者與領導團隊。
  • 完善的日程安排，包括每天中午休息以進行反思、與他人連結、以及晚間課後練習，等等。
  • 有機會進行一對一輔導，或通過視頻會議和各種本地團體，來支持您持續的學習整合到課堂之外落實生活。

課程費用：
感謝這次活動我們在台灣當地的主辦單位「中華好好說話，學會」！有關課程資訊以及報名付費等事宜，請與點選下列連結，將會有台灣在地的服務專員來協助您。

Please contact with our organizer in Taiwan:
Collaborative Communications Academy
中華好好說話，學會
https://www.ccaasia.org
Email: chcc.academy@gmail.com

時間行程：
April 29 ~ May 3, 2022

上課地點：
好好說話工作坊
地址：台北市中山區明水路575號B1
B1F., No. 575, Mingshui Rd., Zhongshan Dist., Taipei City 104 , Taiwan (R.O.C.)

參考書籍：
以下是可以補充和增強您在該課程中的學習書籍。您可以參考線上訂購。
Bennet Wong 和 Jock McKeen 的「新生命花園」：
https://www.books.com.tw/products/0010802492

參與要求：
學員必須有學習的意願和能力。 必須表現出願意負責任的自我照顧、負責任的自我組織以及良好的心理健康的能力。

COVID-19 協議：
Haven 將持續關注台灣地區衛生局的公告，並配合遵循當地所有相關的衛生政策。

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Come Alive in Taiwan

With great excitement, in 2022, we will bring the most popular core program “Come Alive” in The Haven Canada, to Taiwan! First, we would like to thank our organizer in Taiwan, “Collaborative Communications Academy”. Thank you for your efforts to jointly promote this wonderful journey of growth. “Come Alive” is the most popular classic program of The Haven. It has helped thousands of people embark on a journey of personal and professional growth and transformation.

People from all walks of life, backgrounds, experiences, lifestyles, and locations join us and most experience something profound. The magic of Come Alive is in our unique history, renowned communication and relationship models, and community dynamic. With support and guidance, you will learn and practice the Haven models of communication, relationship, and self-responsibility, through a range of opportunities for personal learning. Group activities, discussions and experiences take place in both large and small group settings.

COME ALIVE IS FOR ME IF…

  • I want to deepen my self-awareness and move beyond self-imposed limits.
  • I’m ready to develop greater self-compassion and self-acceptance.
  • I want to experience the freedom of being my whole and authentic self – mind, body, and spirit.
  • I’m open to learning and practicing a transformative model for communication.
  • I want valuable insights to strengthen my health and well-being.
  • I want to break through self-limiting patterns and live the life I want.
  • I’m curious about myself and my place in relationships, community, and the world.
  • I want to rediscover joy and meaning in life.
  • I want more harmonious, loving and fulfilling relationships; I want to know what Intimacy really is.
  • I am looking to improve my professional skills; to be more authentic as a leader, bolster my ‘soft’ skills, and develop better relationships with my co-workers.
  • I want to shake things up and try something different …

“For the first time, I felt comfortable in my own skin…”

Program Highlights:

  • 5 days in a safe, respectful, and supported environment to focus on yourself.
  • Opportunity to learn from, relate to, and deeply connect with others.
  • A unique East meets West approach developed by a psychiatrist (Ben Wong) and a medical doctor and acupuncturist (Jock McKeen).
  • Experiential learning through diverse methods: bodywork, breath, visualization meditation, movement, and cognitive skill development.
  • A powerful approach to developing self-compassion and deeper self-awareness.
  • 40 years of continued success with thousands of participants from around the world.
  • Select expert program leaders, who are highly trained at The Haven and in their various professions.
  • Unparalleled support and a high ratio of participants to leadership team.
  • A full schedule, complete with daily breaks for introspection, connecting with others, evening take-home practices, and more.
  • Support to integrate your learning beyond The Haven through one-on-one coaching, online video meetings, and various local groups.

Program Fee:
Our deep gratitude to The Haven’s organizer in Taiwan “Collaborative Communications Academy”! For program information, registration, and payment, please click the link below, and our local service team will assist you.

Please contact with our organizer in Taiwan:
Collaborative Communications Academy
中華好好說話，學會
https://www.ccaasia.org
Email: chcc.academy@gmail.com

Location:
好好說話工作坊
地址：台北市中山區明水路575號B1
B1F., No. 575, Mingshui Rd., Zhongshan Dist., Taipei City 104, Taiwan (R.O.C.)

Recommended Resources:
Here are book titles that can complement and enhance your learning in this program. You can purchase when you are at Haven, or order online. Click to learn more:
+ Being: A Manual for Life by Bennet Wong & Jock McKeen

Admission Requirements:
The student must have the desire and ability to learn. Must demonstrate a capacity for responsible self-care, responsible self-organization, and sound mental health.

Covid 19 Protocols and Mask Mandates:
Haven will be constantly monitoring local Health Authority announcements and will follow local health policies accordingly.

LEADERS TEAM 導師團隊
This program will be co-led by one of the Haven Core Faculty Wen-Shwu Lee, and an elite leaders’ team: Cora Tao and Debbie Yao. 這個課程由 The Haven 海文學院核心導師李文淑負責帶領，以及一組菁英導師團隊共創：陶曉清和姚黛瑋。

李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee

心理諮商文憑、企業教練碩士認證、企管碩士、藝術學士、文學士、身心整合夫妻療癒認證、身體經驗創傷療法認證
加拿大The Haven學院核心導師
加拿大The Haven學院前董事
加拿大The Haven學院前中國實習生總監
文淑是一位熱情，專業，平易近人的導師。她擁有跨越東西文化的豐富人生閱歷，她的教學以人性為出發點，在她熱情關懷以及洞察人心的教學風格中，文淑有效地整合了她的專業背景與生活經驗，並巧妙地將心理咨商，教練領導，創意啓發，身體經驗，夫妻成長，等不同的學說和技巧融會應用於身心整合的全人發展工作中。多年來她在大中國地區，北美，以及全球的線上平台上教授個人及專業成長課程，引導學員從桎梏的模式，轉化壓力挑戰為有效資源，蛻變為每人的獨特魅力與健康人際關係。在加拿大著名的潛能開發機構海文學院，文淑是唯一的一位華人被認可進入海文的核心導師, 在台灣她也是樂泉咨詢顧問公司的創辦人。

Wen-Shwu Lee
CEC, Dip-C, MBA, BFA, BA, PACT Level II Certification, SE Intermediate II/III Certification
Wenshwu is passionate as an educator and a life coach she is both personal and professional. She embraces life fully and keeps enriching herself in cross-cultural environment. Her leadership style is based on humanity, on which she effectively integrates her professional trainings with personal experiences. She applies various schools of learning, such as coaching, counseling, creativity, SE (Somatic Experiencing), and PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy) in the series of heart-brain integrated personal and professional development programs. She designs and leads onsite workshops and online programs in greater China area, north America, and around the globe. In these programs Wenshwu witnesses so many people breaking through fixated patterns, transforming suppression to useful resources, and living fully in their unique beings. Wenshwu is so far the only Chinese approved to the Haven Core Faculty. She is also the founder of The Train Coaching & Counseling Corp. in Taiwan.

陶曉清 Cora Tao

陶曉清：資深廣播人，2016年擔任牽手之聲網路電台台長，服務癌友。 2000年得到台灣流行音樂金曲獎的特殊貢獻獎。2017年得到第52屆廣 播金鐘獎特殊貢獻獎。 1992年初次去加拿大溫哥華Haven學院參加成長團體，後來決定繼續進修，在2010年取得Haven學院的諮商證書。 多年來透過身體的舞動、聲音的共鳴、曼達拉繪畫與棉紙撕畫的創 作，以及對心理劇的鑽研，過著身心合一的生活，並持續帶領各種相 關的心靈成長課程。 著作有:「寫給追求成長的你」、「讓真愛照亮每一天」、譯作有: 「生命花園」、「活出熱情」等與成長相關的書。 2016年出版「那些在青春網的日子」，2017年出版「生命的河流」。

Cora joined The Broadcasting Corporation of China in 1965 when she was 19. She started hosting American top 40’s program. Ten years later she launched another program named Chinese Western Folk Songs, in that it encouraged original compositions by college students and the best ones were broadcasted island wide. This program received overwhelming response thus gave birth to the Campus Folk Song Movement which led to Chinese music commercial development in the 80s. And she was named the Mother of Folk Music in Taiwan. In 1995 along with other musicians she founded The Chun Wah Music Workers Association (Chinese Musicians Exchange Association?). She served as its first and second chairwomen not only to organize folk song events and concerts but also held Top 10 music critics choice album and singles annually. In 2000 she received a Golden Melody special contribution award in recognition of her many achievements. She retired from broadcasting career in July 2008 and dedicated herself to professional training of helping people and get her Diploma in Counseling from Haven Institute of Canada in 2010. After breast cancer treatment in 2013 she started with friends to develop an online radio to serve cancer patients. And she led reading groups and different workshops with Debbie Yao.

Debbie Yao 姚黛瑋

知名演員及歌手，1984年參加「金韻獎」以歌手身分成為表演藝人，出過多張專輯，因歌唱事業被大家注意，卻因為〝檳榔姐妹花〞這個可愛的短劇本土角色在當時臺灣及華人地區家喻戶曉。之後繼續擴展演藝事業，在連續劇、音樂劇、舞臺劇、電影、電視電台主持、模仿秀等領域均相當成功。演出超過30部電視劇及偶像劇，並二度入圍「金鐘獎」最佳女配角。1993年開始參加在臺灣及國外的個人及專業心理成長課程，對其產生極大興趣。除了演藝工作之外，其他時間就持續參與課程學習，同時在忙碌的演藝工作中也抽空回到大學就讀，2014年從實踐大學家庭研究與兒童發展系畢業；在豐富及亮眼的演藝、主持經驗外，也於2019年取得加拿大Haven學院的心理諮商證書、中國國家二級心理諮詢師，同時擁有催眠與NLP、頌缽、靈氣等證照。近15年來與陶曉清共同在臺灣、中國大陸都有開設心理成長課程與帶領讀書會，成功開創另一番事業；也由於英語、普通話及台語都十分流利，是位非常受歡迎的即席口譯師。著作：《他說、她說》；譯作：《生命花園》。目前仍持續許多戲劇演出與主持電視節目「健康大小事」，每週主持牽手之聲網路電台「黛比的生命花園」一小時節目服務癌友。與陶曉清共同帶領讀書會與課程，也是加拿大海文學院助教。

A well-known actress and singer in Taiwan. In 1984, she participated and won in the “Golden Rhyme Award” singing contest and became a performing artist. She has released many albums, have been noticed by everyone because of her singing career. It is a household name in the Chinese community. After that, she continued to expand her acting career and was quite successful in the fields of soap opera, musicals, stage plays, TV and radio hosting, and satire shows. Performed in more than 30 TV series and dramas and was nominated for the “Golden Bell Awards” for Best Supporting Actress twice. In 1993, she began to participate in personal and professional psychological growth courses in Taiwan and abroad, and she became very interested in it. Besides her performing arts work, she continued to participate in courses at other times. At the same time, she also took time to return to university during her busy performing arts work. In 2014, she graduated from the Department of Family Studies and Child Development of Shih Chien University; In addition to experience, she also obtained the Dip.C from Haven Institute in Canada in 2019, and the National Second-level Psychological Counselor of China. She also has certificates of hypnosis and NLP, Singing Bowl, Reiki, etc.; leads self-growth workshops in Taiwan and Mainland China. Successfully started another career; also, because she is fluent in English, Mandarin and Taiwanese, she also is a very popular impromptu interpreter. Had published a book with Al Chambers “He Said, She Said”; Translated: “The New Manual of Life”. She still actively in entertainment business and co-led book clubs and workshops with Cora Tao for almost 20 years. She is also an assistant at the Haven Institute Canada. She hosts a one-hour radio show “Debbie’s Garden of Life” every week for cancer survivor and patients.

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愛神與親密 – 啓動生命的原創力 線上雙語課程

Eros and Intimacy – Connecting with Your Creative Life Force, Bilingual Online Program

| 導師：Elfi Dillon-Shaw & 李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee
| 時間：June 18, 19, 25, 26, 2022
| 人數：103

800

這次中英雙語的「愛神和親密」課程，我們有 103 位註冊學員，其中 4 位作為銷售獎勵是免費的。 我們非常感謝 20 多人的工作團隊，他們是我們的小組助教和翻譯志工。 很高興這次課程中我們有五位學員是說英語的西方朋友們加入了我們的學習 — 感謝 Vicky 扮演了雙重角色，除了擔任 IT 技術支援外，同時也帶領了這次的英語小組。 我也很欣賞 Elfi 老師在課程中出色的表現。 Elfi，我喜歡和妳一起工作和學習。 我們也不斷收到學員們對這次課程的讚賞和正向反饋，他們的回饋特別是關於課程裡的豐富學習，以及這次在線學習於身心合一體驗上的有效性。

This is to provide the Summary Report of the Bilingual Eros and Intimacy Program. We had 103 registrants and 4 of them are free as sales incentives. We appreciate so much the over 20 people work team who are volunteers as our small group assistants and translators. We are delighted to include five English speaking participants – thank you Vicky for your double roles on IT and the English-speaking small group assistant. I also like to appreciate Elfi’s excellent work on this subject. I enjoy working and learning with you. We have been receiving appreciation and positive feedbacks from participants about the rich learning and the effectiveness of this online learning opportunity.

愛神與親密 – 啓動生命的原創力
Eros and Intimacy – Connecting with Your Creative Life Force

讓生命充滿活力與趣味

愛神（愛洛斯）的力量，或者説：生命的能量，也就是創造的力量，讓我們與生命活水和大自然連結。這股力量在我們的身體內不斷循環，也讓我們相互吸引，我們每一個人的生命也因著倆人的愛神之舞而誕生！

人際關係中，愛神（愛洛斯）的能量常會造成我們之間的誤解、困擾、羞愧，和罪惡感。但是，如果我們能學習把心敞開，深入了解愛神的智慧與能量，誏這股能量在我們的生命和人際關係中不斷循環，我們就能打開我們的感官知覺，無論是和自己獨處，或是與他人同在，我們能夠學習全然地活在生命的喜悅中。在我們了解和分享愛神的智慧時，我們也學習擁抱脆弱並且真實存在。

在這個充滿冒險的精彩課程中，我們邀請您一起來學習，如何滋養並連結愛神的能量。假設您有伴侶，您也可以練習如何將這些美妙的經驗與您的伴侶分享。經由身心合一的體驗，分享對話，以及自我省思，期待大家都有機會一起洞見連結愛神能量與靈性經驗的新視野。

在大多數恩愛的伴侶間，愛神的能量有時候也會如潮水般的消退；在關係中這可能會帶來苦痛和誤解。課程中我們會一起來探索如何不是以羞愧，而是用一顆誠摯並充滿愛的心來溝通我們逐漸消退的愛神能量。

每次的課程將以不同的焦點來深入我們的主題「愛神與親密」，我們邀請學員在課程與課程間持續地反思落實所學。課中所有的探索練習也將尊重個人不同的選擇以及尊重界限的方式進行。課程的形式包括：

  • 身心合一的靜心冥想
  • 愛神和親密主題簡報
  • 創意與經驗式的學習
  • 小組分享與自我省思
  • 回家作業的落地實習

課程主題

  • 活在愛中的七元素：情境背景、感官知覺、性感物化、親密連結、性別認同、全人健康，靈性價值。
  • 經由情境背景了解自己與他人
  • 在感官知覺中經驗生命的流動
  • 探索性感與權力的角色與物化
  • 親密關係中依附與獨立的推拉
  • 從全人健康的觀點看愛的習題
  • 在不同的性別認同中包容彼此
  • 大愛在靈性層次的價值與力量

合作夥伴
這是一個加拿大海文和中國團隊的跨國合作！感謝双方的合作我們才有機會將海文精彩的課程持續地從加拿大本土推廣到全球的平台上。 建議您先下載WeChat軟體，所以您可以更方便地收到我們的課程錄影以及課程提醒。

Eros and Intimacy – Connecting with Your Creative Life Force

Daily life as “For Play”

Erotic energy, or life energy, is the creative force that moves us into connection with life and with nature. It circulates within our own bodies and draws us to another. Each one of us began life through the dance of Eros between two people.

In human relationships sexual erotic energy can often be a source of misunderstanding and struggle, shame, and guilt. With open hearts and deeper understanding about how erotic energy moves through our life and relationship cycles we can learn how to open to the pleasure of being fully alive in our senses, alone, and with each other. We learn to embrace the vulnerability and revelation that accompany erotic knowledge and sharing.

In this course you will be invited to learn how to nurture and engage your own erotic energy and, if you are partnered, how to share this with your loved one. We offer insight into the connection between erotic and spiritual experiencing through body centered learning, through dialogue with one another and self-reflection.

Erotic energy will ebb and flow even in the most loving couple. This could bring about suffering and misunderstanding in their relationship. We will explore how to communicate our erotic being with less shame, with honesty, and a loving heart.

Each session will focus on different topics related to Eros and Intimacy and you will be invited to continue your reflections in the time between sessions. These explorations will take place in an atmosphere of respect and every person’s choice is respected. The format will include:

  • Embodiment meditations
  • Presentations about Eros and Intimacy in Relationships
  • Experiential exercises
  • Small group sharing and reflections
  • Take home practices

Topics and Highlights

  • Overview on Perspectives of Erotic Living – The Seven Circles of Sexuality: Context, Sensuality, Sexualization and Objectification, Intimacy, Sexual Identity, Whole Person Sexual Health, and Spirituality/Values
  • Sensuality: coming alive in the body through senses
  • Sexualization/Objectification: sex and power, sexuality post romance
  • Intimacy: eros in relationships, the desire for comfort vs the desire for novelty, the willingness to move from power to connection
  • Whole Person Sexual Health: physical/spiritual/relational, gender identity and roles, the role of values and spirituality in erotic life

主導老師 Leaders
Elfi Dillon-Shaw
Dip-C
is a massage practitioner, bodyworker and educator with 20 years’ experience fostering experiences of pleasure and well-being. She teaches programs on sexuality, body practices and stress management, including Sexual Intelligence, Stirring the Cauldron, and Eros and Intimacy (with her husband Gary Dillon). She has worked at The Haven since 1983.

艾爾菲
海文心理諮商文憑
資深身體工作者，在個人肢體開發與全人健康教育上有20年的教學經驗，艾爾菲主要帶領的課程有：生命力的覺察，身體的工作，壓力管理，性智商，女性能量的開發，愛神的力量與親密連結，艾爾菲在1983年即加入海文，是海文的最資深導師之一。

Wen-Shwu Lee
CEC, Dip-C, MBA, BFA, BA
Wenshwu is passionate as a corporate trainer and coach she is both personal and professional. She embraces life fully and keeps enriching herself in cross cultural environments. Her leading style is based on humanity, on which she effectively integrates business trainings with personal experiences. She applies ideas of coaching, counseling, and creativity in the series of heart-brain integrated leadership development programs. She leads and assists personal growth workshops and leadership programs in China, Taiwan, and Canada. In these programs Wenshwu witnesses so many people breaking through fixated patterns, transforming suppression to useful resources, and living fully in their unique beings. Wenshwu is one of the Directors on The Haven Board and a member on the Core Faculty. She is also the founder of The Train Coaching & Counseling Corp. in Taiwan.

李文淑
加拿大The Haven学院心理谘商文凭
企业教练硕士认证、企管硕士、艺术学士,、文学士
文淑是一位热情, 专业, 平易近人的导师, 她拥有跨东西文化的丰富人生阅历. 她的教学以人性为出发点, 在她热情关怀和洞察人心的教学风格中, 文淑有效整合了她的企业背景与生活经验, 巧妙地将教练领导, 心理咨商, 与创意启发等不同的技巧融会应用于身心整合与全人启发的人才培育工作中。多年来她在加拿大, 中国大陆以及台湾教授个人成长以及领导力开发课程, 引导学员从桎梏的个人模式中, 转化压力为有效的资源, 蜕变出每一个人的独特魅力与全方位的领袖风范。文淑目前是加拿大著名的潜能开发学院 The Haven Institute 的董事以及核心导师, 同时她是乐泉咨询顾问公司The Train Coaching & Counseling Corp. 的创办人.。

Partnership
This program is a partnership between The Haven (Canada) and The China Team. We are grateful of the co-sponsorship so we can continue to offer transformational programs through The Haven and internationally. It is recommended that you download WeChat so that you can receive the recordings and program reminders more easily.

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潛力甦醒 實體課程

Come Alive – Onsite

| 導師：李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee, 陶曉清 Cora Tao, 姚黛瑋 Debbie Yao
| 時間：4/29~5/3, 2022
| 人數：26

這是首次我們將加拿大海文學院最經典也是最受歡迎的課程「Come Alive 潛力甦醒」原汁原味地帶到台灣，這也是第一次導師團隊以中文母語來開辦這精彩的課程！雖然受到全球疫情的衝擊，我們仍然有 26 名熱情參與的學員，這是第一屆中文潛力甦醒 Come Alive in Mandarin 在台灣非常成功的落地生根。 我們收到學員的反饋是積極和支持的。 這次的成功再次說明了 The Haven 的教學方式及精神理念是回應著社會的需求。 非常感謝我們在台灣的合作夥伴：賴佩霞老師和她的團隊「好好說話學會 CCA」，導師團隊（我自已李文淑，以及陶曉清和姚黛瑋兩位老師），同時我們也有三位好友接受我們的邀請以志工方式共同扶持小組的進行，整個團隊的溝通，協作，與共創，是這次成功的關鍵！ 非常感謝！ 疫情的壓力下，感恩ㄧ切都在祝福中平安度過 — 只有一位學員在最後一天被隔離，因為她的丈夫檢測呈陽性。 當天我們也為該學員彈性提供了線上上課的替代作法，這位學員也表達了感謝工作團隊的線上服務和彈性。

The very first Come Alive in Taiwan is very successful! Considering the Pandemic we remained 26 registrants. The feedbacks we’ve been receiving are positive and supportive. Again, it says The Haven is responding to the social needs and market demand. My deep appreciation to Tammy and her team CCA, Collaborative Communications Academy – our local sponsor. The authentic teamwork among leaders (I – Wenshwu, Cora, and Debbie) also contributes to the success. Three of our friends were invited as volunteers to co-facilitate the small groups. All is blessed and all is well – only one person was quarantined on the last day of the program because her husband was tested positive. We provided this participant the online access to the program. She was grateful to our online service and spontaneity.

Come Alive in Taiwan
潛力甦醒在台灣舉辦

帶著無比興奮的心情在 2022 年我們將要把加拿大 The Haven 最受歡迎的核心課程 Come Alive 「潛力甦醒」帶到台灣了！首先要感謝我們在台灣的主辦單位「中華好好說話，學會」，謝謝所有工作同仁的努力，共同促成了這次精彩的成長之旅，「潛力甦醒」是海文學院最受歡迎的經典課程，它幫助了數以千計的人開啟了他們在個人以及專業上的成長與蛻變之旅。

我們的學員來自各行各業、不同背景、經歷、各種生活方式和世界各地，這些朋友加入了Haven課程後，他們體驗到生命的流動以及在關係間深刻的學習。竭誠地歡迎您一起加入海文的豐盛學習之旅！

Come Alive 的魅力在於它獨特的歷史，課程中有著名的海文核心模式介紹與體驗。在專業導師群的支持和指導下，您有機會學習並實踐海文學院的溝通模式、全我模式以及共鳴模式。課程中我們設計了各種團體活動、互動討論以及經驗式的學習機會，會在大組和小組不同團體動能中穿插進行。

「潛力甦醒」適合我，如果 …

  • 我想加深我的自我覺察並突破自我的框架限制
  • 我準備好培養更多的自我疼惜和自我接納
  • 我想體驗成為完整且真實的自己 — 得到思想、身體和精神上的自由
  • 我願意學習和實踐成長與轉化的溝通模式
  • 我想要有價值的見解來增強我的健康和福祉
  • 我想突破自我限制模式，過我想要的生活
  • 我好奇自己在人際關係、社群和世界中的位置
  • 我想重新發現生活中的快樂和意義
  • 我想要更和諧、充滿愛和充實的關係；我想知道什麼是真正的親密
  • 我希望提高專業技能；成為更真實的領導者，增強我的軟實力，並與我的同事建立更好的關係
  • 我想改變現狀並嘗試不同的東西……

“第一次，我對自己感到很舒服……”

課程亮點：

  • 在安全與支持的環境中度過 5天，專注於自己。
  • 有機會向他人學習、建立連結並與他人建立深厚的情誼。
  • 學習結構由精神科醫生黃煥祥（Ben Wong）以及是醫生也是針灸師的麥基卓（Jock McKeen）共同研究開發出，採用了獨特的東西方整合的方法。
  • 通過各種方法進行創意與體驗式的學習：身體工作、呼吸、冥想、不同的活動，以及認知技能的發展，等。
  • 是一種培養自我疼惜和更深層自我覺察的有效方法。
  • 40 年來持續成功，有來自世界各地的數以千計的參與者。
  • 精選的專業課程導師群，他們在The Haven海文學院以及各種專業上都受過高度培訓。
  • 無與倫比的支持和高比例的參與者與領導團隊。
  • 完善的日程安排，包括每天中午休息以進行反思、與他人連結、以及晚間課後練習，等等。
  • 有機會進行一對一輔導，或通過視頻會議和各種本地團體，來支持您持續的學習整合到課堂之外落實生活。

課程費用：
感謝這次活動我們在台灣當地的主辦單位「中華好好說話，學會」！有關課程資訊以及報名付費等事宜，請與點選下列連結，將會有台灣在地的服務專員來協助您。

Please contact with our organizer in Taiwan:
Collaborative Communications Academy
中華好好說話，學會
https://www.ccaasia.org
Email: chcc.academy@gmail.com

時間行程：
April 29 ~ May 3, 2022

上課地點：
好好說話工作坊
地址：台北市中山區明水路575號B1
B1F., No. 575, Mingshui Rd., Zhongshan Dist., Taipei City 104 , Taiwan (R.O.C.)

參考書籍：
以下是可以補充和增強您在該課程中的學習書籍。您可以參考線上訂購。
Bennet Wong 和 Jock McKeen 的「新生命花園」：
https://www.books.com.tw/products/0010802492

參與要求：
學員必須有學習的意願和能力。 必須表現出願意負責任的自我照顧、負責任的自我組織以及良好的心理健康的能力。

COVID-19 協議：
Haven 將持續關注台灣地區衛生局的公告，並配合遵循當地所有相關的衛生政策。

ONSITE:
Come Alive in Taiwan

With great excitement, in 2022, we will bring the most popular core program “Come Alive” in The Haven Canada, to Taiwan! First, we would like to thank our organizer in Taiwan, “Collaborative Communications Academy”. Thank you for your efforts to jointly promote this wonderful journey of growth. “Come Alive” is the most popular classic program of The Haven. It has helped thousands of people embark on a journey of personal and professional growth and transformation.

People from all walks of life, backgrounds, experiences, lifestyles, and locations join us and most experience something profound. The magic of Come Alive is in our unique history, renowned communication and relationship models, and community dynamic. With support and guidance, you will learn and practice the Haven models of communication, relationship, and self-responsibility, through a range of opportunities for personal learning. Group activities, discussions and experiences take place in both large and small group settings.

COME ALIVE IS FOR ME IF…

  • I want to deepen my self-awareness and move beyond self-imposed limits.
  • I’m ready to develop greater self-compassion and self-acceptance.
  • I want to experience the freedom of being my whole and authentic self – mind, body, and spirit.
  • I’m open to learning and practicing a transformative model for communication.
  • I want valuable insights to strengthen my health and well-being.
  • I want to break through self-limiting patterns and live the life I want.
  • I’m curious about myself and my place in relationships, community, and the world.
  • I want to rediscover joy and meaning in life.
  • I want more harmonious, loving and fulfilling relationships; I want to know what Intimacy really is.
  • I am looking to improve my professional skills; to be more authentic as a leader, bolster my ‘soft’ skills, and develop better relationships with my co-workers.
  • I want to shake things up and try something different …

“For the first time, I felt comfortable in my own skin…”

Program Highlights:

  • 5 days in a safe, respectful, and supported environment to focus on yourself.
  • Opportunity to learn from, relate to, and deeply connect with others.
  • A unique East meets West approach developed by a psychiatrist (Ben Wong) and a medical doctor and acupuncturist (Jock McKeen).
  • Experiential learning through diverse methods: bodywork, breath, visualization meditation, movement, and cognitive skill development.
  • A powerful approach to developing self-compassion and deeper self-awareness.
  • 40 years of continued success with thousands of participants from around the world.
  • Select expert program leaders, who are highly trained at The Haven and in their various professions.
  • Unparalleled support and a high ratio of participants to leadership team.
  • A full schedule, complete with daily breaks for introspection, connecting with others, evening take-home practices, and more.
  • Support to integrate your learning beyond The Haven through one-on-one coaching, online video meetings, and various local groups.

Program Fee:
Our deep gratitude to The Haven’s organizer in Taiwan “Collaborative Communications Academy”! For program information, registration, and payment, please click the link below, and our local service team will assist you.

Please contact with our organizer in Taiwan:
Collaborative Communications Academy
中華好好說話，學會
https://www.ccaasia.org
Email: chcc.academy@gmail.com

Location:
好好說話工作坊
地址：台北市中山區明水路575號B1
B1F., No. 575, Mingshui Rd., Zhongshan Dist., Taipei City 104, Taiwan (R.O.C.)

Recommended Resources:
Here are book titles that can complement and enhance your learning in this program. You can purchase when you are at Haven, or order online. Click to learn more:
+ Being: A Manual for Life by Bennet Wong & Jock McKeen

Admission Requirements:
The student must have the desire and ability to learn. Must demonstrate a capacity for responsible self-care, responsible self-organization, and sound mental health.

Covid 19 Protocols and Mask Mandates:
Haven will be constantly monitoring local Health Authority announcements and will follow local health policies accordingly.

LEADERS TEAM 導師團隊
This program will be co-led by one of the Haven Core Faculty Wen-Shwu Lee, and an elite leaders’ team: Cora Tao and Debbie Yao. 這個課程由 The Haven 海文學院核心導師李文淑負責帶領，以及一組菁英導師團隊共創：陶曉清和姚黛瑋。

李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee

心理諮商文憑、企業教練碩士認證、企管碩士、藝術學士、文學士、身心整合夫妻療癒認證、身體經驗創傷療法認證
加拿大The Haven學院核心導師
加拿大The Haven學院前董事
加拿大The Haven學院前中國實習生總監
文淑是一位熱情，專業，平易近人的導師。她擁有跨越東西文化的豐富人生閱歷，她的教學以人性為出發點，在她熱情關懷以及洞察人心的教學風格中，文淑有效地整合了她的專業背景與生活經驗，並巧妙地將心理咨商，教練領導，創意啓發，身體經驗，夫妻成長，等不同的學說和技巧融會應用於身心整合的全人發展工作中。多年來她在大中國地區，北美，以及全球的線上平台上教授個人及專業成長課程，引導學員從桎梏的模式，轉化壓力挑戰為有效資源，蛻變為每人的獨特魅力與健康人際關係。在加拿大著名的潛能開發機構海文學院，文淑是唯一的一位華人被認可進入海文的核心導師, 在台灣她也是樂泉咨詢顧問公司的創辦人。

Wen-Shwu Lee
CEC, Dip-C, MBA, BFA, BA, PACT Level II Certification, SE Intermediate II/III Certification
Wenshwu is passionate as an educator and a life coach she is both personal and professional. She embraces life fully and keeps enriching herself in cross-cultural environment. Her leadership style is based on humanity, on which she effectively integrates her professional trainings with personal experiences. She applies various schools of learning, such as coaching, counseling, creativity, SE (Somatic Experiencing), and PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy) in the series of heart-brain integrated personal and professional development programs. She designs and leads onsite workshops and online programs in greater China area, north America, and around the globe. In these programs Wenshwu witnesses so many people breaking through fixated patterns, transforming suppression to useful resources, and living fully in their unique beings. Wenshwu is so far the only Chinese approved to the Haven Core Faculty. She is also the founder of The Train Coaching & Counseling Corp. in Taiwan.

陶曉清 Cora Tao

陶曉清：資深廣播人，2016年擔任牽手之聲網路電台台長，服務癌友。 2000年得到台灣流行音樂金曲獎的特殊貢獻獎。2017年得到第52屆廣 播金鐘獎特殊貢獻獎。 1992年初次去加拿大溫哥華Haven學院參加成長團體，後來決定繼續進修，在2010年取得Haven學院的諮商證書。 多年來透過身體的舞動、聲音的共鳴、曼達拉繪畫與棉紙撕畫的創 作，以及對心理劇的鑽研，過著身心合一的生活，並持續帶領各種相 關的心靈成長課程。 著作有:「寫給追求成長的你」、「讓真愛照亮每一天」、譯作有: 「生命花園」、「活出熱情」等與成長相關的書。 2016年出版「那些在青春網的日子」，2017年出版「生命的河流」。

Cora joined The Broadcasting Corporation of China in 1965 when she was 19. She started hosting American top 40’s program. Ten years later she launched another program named Chinese Western Folk Songs, in that it encouraged original compositions by college students and the best ones were broadcasted island wide. This program received overwhelming response thus gave birth to the Campus Folk Song Movement which led to Chinese music commercial development in the 80s. And she was named the Mother of Folk Music in Taiwan. In 1995 along with other musicians she founded The Chun Wah Music Workers Association (Chinese Musicians Exchange Association?). She served as its first and second chairwomen not only to organize folk song events and concerts but also held Top 10 music critics choice album and singles annually. In 2000 she received a Golden Melody special contribution award in recognition of her many achievements. She retired from broadcasting career in July 2008 and dedicated herself to professional training of helping people and get her Diploma in Counseling from Haven Institute of Canada in 2010. After breast cancer treatment in 2013 she started with friends to develop an online radio to serve cancer patients. And she led reading groups and different workshops with Debbie Yao.

Debbie Yao 姚黛瑋

知名演員及歌手，1984年參加「金韻獎」以歌手身分成為表演藝人，出過多張專輯，因歌唱事業被大家注意，卻因為〝檳榔姐妹花〞這個可愛的短劇本土角色在當時臺灣及華人地區家喻戶曉。之後繼續擴展演藝事業，在連續劇、音樂劇、舞臺劇、電影、電視電台主持、模仿秀等領域均相當成功。演出超過30部電視劇及偶像劇，並二度入圍「金鐘獎」最佳女配角。1993年開始參加在臺灣及國外的個人及專業心理成長課程，對其產生極大興趣。除了演藝工作之外，其他時間就持續參與課程學習，同時在忙碌的演藝工作中也抽空回到大學就讀，2014年從實踐大學家庭研究與兒童發展系畢業；在豐富及亮眼的演藝、主持經驗外，也於2019年取得加拿大Haven學院的心理諮商證書、中國國家二級心理諮詢師，同時擁有催眠與NLP、頌缽、靈氣等證照。近15年來與陶曉清共同在臺灣、中國大陸都有開設心理成長課程與帶領讀書會，成功開創另一番事業；也由於英語、普通話及台語都十分流利，是位非常受歡迎的即席口譯師。著作：《他說、她說》；譯作：《生命花園》。目前仍持續許多戲劇演出與主持電視節目「健康大小事」，每週主持牽手之聲網路電台「黛比的生命花園」一小時節目服務癌友。與陶曉清共同帶領讀書會與課程，也是加拿大海文學院助教。

A well-known actress and singer in Taiwan. In 1984, she participated and won in the “Golden Rhyme Award” singing contest and became a performing artist. She has released many albums, have been noticed by everyone because of her singing career. It is a household name in the Chinese community. After that, she continued to expand her acting career and was quite successful in the fields of soap opera, musicals, stage plays, TV and radio hosting, and satire shows. Performed in more than 30 TV series and dramas and was nominated for the “Golden Bell Awards” for Best Supporting Actress twice. In 1993, she began to participate in personal and professional psychological growth courses in Taiwan and abroad, and she became very interested in it. Besides her performing arts work, she continued to participate in courses at other times. At the same time, she also took time to return to university during her busy performing arts work. In 2014, she graduated from the Department of Family Studies and Child Development of Shih Chien University; In addition to experience, she also obtained the Dip.C from Haven Institute in Canada in 2019, and the National Second-level Psychological Counselor of China. She also has certificates of hypnosis and NLP, Singing Bowl, Reiki, etc.; leads self-growth workshops in Taiwan and Mainland China. Successfully started another career; also, because she is fluent in English, Mandarin and Taiwanese, she also is a very popular impromptu interpreter. Had published a book with Al Chambers “He Said, She Said”; Translated: “The New Manual of Life”. She still actively in entertainment business and co-led book clubs and workshops with Cora Tao for almost 20 years. She is also an assistant at the Haven Institute Canada. She hosts a one-hour radio show “Debbie’s Garden of Life” every week for cancer survivor and patients.

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Transforming Addictions ~ English Online Program

Transforming Addictions ~ English Online Program
Part A: Building a Resilient Foundation
Part B: Sustaining Recovery & Embracing Life

| Leaders: Wen-Shwu Lee, Cathy Wilder, Vicky Frederiksen

2020
Part A 9/15~10/20, 2020; Participants: 26
Part B: 11/3~19, 2020; Participants: 22
2021
Part A 4/13~5/18, 2021; Participants: 22
Part B: 9/7~10/12, 2021; Participants: 22
2022
Part A 3/1~4/12, 2022; Participants: 10
Part B: 5/17~6/28, 2022; Participants: 8

Testimonials:
NOTE: both have been confirmed re: names and The Haven has permission to use

Dr Helen Peel: “
The Haven have managed to bring their unique, inspiring format and approach to the virtual platform. It’s wonderful to be able to have a slice of The Haven in my own home, especially in these challenging times.”

Chantelle Voisin: “
This is my second Haven experience, considering it was online I have to commend it came with the same amazing energy. I appreciate the ability to attend at a more cost-efficient amount due to the class being online, and it also allowed me to join while being in another province and maintaining my work schedule.

The teachers were great, the class was inclusive, the learning was very relevant, and I can apply the tools in my everyday life.

Thank you!

I would and do recommend the Haven to anyone that desires growth or change in their life in some shape or form. The community always welcoming and supportive; the teaching amazing and applicable. I realize in both my Haven experiences (one in person, one online) the energy of the environment is one of peace and healing. This allows the comfort and willingness to open up, be vulnerable, and work through what is needed. I cannot say enough good things, if you have not participated in the Haven before, now is the time!

Thank you, Haven team!”

Participant’s Feedback
Positive Feedback:

  • Leaders are passionate, knowledgeable, and engaged.
  • I think they are lovely; I like that they share their personal experiences. I enjoy their joyful energies, which radiate even via Zoom.
  • Well prepared and skilled.
  • Willing to be authentic and share previous vulnerabilities.
  • Great listeners and questioners.
  • The teachers were great, the class was inclusive, the learning was very relevant, and I can apply the tools in my everyday life.
  • The leaders were outstanding: energetic, compassionate, inclusive, and knowledgeable. They worked well as a team and yet each person shone as an individual instructor. They were able to create a safe environment for people to share, and they gave meaningful and supportive feedback.
  • Liked the group sharing, and really enjoyed the information on neuroscience of addiction.
  • A highlight for me was Gabor Mate’s presentation and I found the diagrams of models useful.
  • Liked Having a buddy to text with between classes. Personal examples of theories.
  • I enjoyed going into the small rooms and then back to the big rooms, I liked having a partner system, love the dancing breaks and meditation.
  • Wen-Shwu you light up a virtual room
  • A highlight for me was the song and poem at the end of each session. These were very moving and were obviously choses with great care.

Constructive Feedback:

  • I’m finding sometimes it can be hard to follow the teaching content. Clearer explanations would be helpful.
  • Less large group discussion, more teaching and workshop type exercises.
  • I would like the leaders to leave more silence after asking someone a question. They tend to fill the silence quickly and ask a different question or answer for the person without giving the person a chance to think.
  • Re: choosing buddies on Day 1: That part felt very rushed and pushed and did not feel like there was time to use discernment or notice who I might be drawn to or not.
  • I do not get as much out of group or break out discussions and would prefer a meaty presentation of new models and ideas from leaders before things are opened to everyone. I would prefer more directed rather than open-ended discussions.


Many people say The Haven was “the missing link” in their recovery from a variety of addictive behaviors.
We may hear the word “addiction” and think of alcohol or hard drugs, however, addictive substances can also include things like caffeine, sugar, tobacco, and cannabis. And, while substance addictions are common forms of dependency, they are also not the only ones! This series also applies to people struggling with behavioral addictions, like gambling, sex (including online pornography), internet browsing and social media, shopping, video gaming, plastic surgery, binge-eating/food, risk-taking, pain-seeking, spiritual obsessing, over-exercising, over-working, self-hate/victimization, and other addictive processes you may experience.

Are any of these statements true for you?

  1. I find myself slipping into unhealthy patterns.
  2. I’m in recovery, but I’m worried about relapse.
  3. I have trouble being intimate with others.
  4. I have struggled in destructive relationships.
  5. I don’t feel good enough or deserving.

If you can relate to any one of these, this series may be a perfect opportunity to first build a resilient foundation and next, sustain recovery and embrace life!

“The Haven have managed to bring their unique, inspiring format and approach to the virtual platform. It’s wonderful to be able to have a slice of The Haven in my own home, especially in these challenging times.” – Dr. Helen Peel, past participant

Series Format:
This 2-part series will be held on Zoom, incorporating experiential exercises, group discussion, breakouts, presentations and more. In addition to over 24 hours of live online learning, you will receive take-home practices and opportunities to connect with a buddy in the group. If you miss a session, you will be able to access the recordings. You can register for each part of the series individually or save by purchasing the package. The intention of a 2-part series extending over 6 months is to provide continuous learning, opportunities to repattern, and meaningful change.

“The teachers were great, the class was inclusive, the learning was very relevant, and I can apply the tools in my everyday life.” – Chantelle Voisin, past participant

Part A: Building a Resilient Foundation
Tuesdays 6-8pm PT, April 13th through May 18th

During these six 2-hour sessions you will learn

  • Rich discussion on freedom/self-responsibility, power/strength, shame/self-compassion
  • Introduction to Satir and Haven Models
  • Learning about neurobiology and addictions
  • Tools for shifting perspectives and patterns and building new neural pathways.
  • Building a community of support

Part B: Sustaining Recovery & Embracing Life
Tuesdays 6-8pm PT, September 7th through October 12th

During these six 2-hour sessions you will learn

  • Learning and practicing healthy communication, including conflict
  • Discovering courage through vulnerability
  • Considering and connecting to your spirituality
  • Discussing relapse
  • Learning how to incorporate self-care and ask for/give support
  • Thriving with purpose, meaning, engagement, creativity
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存乎一心的日常實踐 線上募款講座

The Daily Practice of the Illuminated Heart, Fund Raising

| 主講：Jock McKeen & 李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee
| 時間：March 18, 2022
| 人數：153

以下是這次募款講座活動的總結報告。 我們有來自世界各地的 153 名參與者，在活動當天 – 太平洋時間 2022 年 3 月 18 日大約有 120 人上線。 我們不斷聽到參與學員們非常積極正向的反饋，大多數人都很欣賞“The Illuminated Heart 存乎一心”這本書的撰寫背景和深層含義。 聽說不少閱讀小組正在啟動，好像這個學習趨勢仍在延續中。 最後也是同樣重要的，我要感謝我們有好幾位說英語的西方朋友們也報名並支持著這項活動。 非常感謝中國和加拿大的整個工作團隊。

Hereafter is the summary report of the subject program. We have 153 participants from all over the world and around 120 came online on Mar. 18, 2022, PT. We keep hearing very positive feedbacks and mostly they are appreciating the context and the deeper meaning of “The Illuminated Heart!” The momentum seems keeping on when I heard quite a few reading groups are starting up. Last but not least I like to appreciate a few of our English-speaking friends also signed up to support this event. Big thank you for the whole work team in China and Canada.

存乎一心的日常實踐
The Everyday Practice of the Illuminated Heart

加入我們一起來體驗海文創辦人Dr. Jock McKeen與李文淑老師的跨洋對話與双語分享：「存乎一心的日常實踐」 ！Jock與海文的另一位創辦人Bennet Wong共同創辦了海文學院，並且設計了一系列四十多年來歷久彌新的海文核心課程，其中重要的理論板塊與體驗練習也是兩人多年專業研究與生活實踐的累積。「存乎一心」這本書不但整合了Ben and Jock畢生的鑽研，也是在Ben過世前他們共同著作的最終呈現。這次網路研討會真是很難得的機會，我們邀請到Jock在線分享他與Ben的整合與共創 – 讓我們一起來了解 Jock 如何探索並將書中的想法應用到他的日常實踐中，以及文淑老師又如何將她的海文學習融入工作與生活。

“當黃煥祥和我寫「存乎一心：東方與西方的心理學與思想」這本書時，我們原本打算將它寫成一本大型的參考書，來呈現我們兩人在Haven海文學院教學的根源和細節。我們當時的信念是（至目前為止我仍然是這麼認為）：人們可以使用不同的想法、模式和練習來提升成長自己，無論是在日常生活中，還是在他們的專業裏。這一次的線上研討會，我和文淑將一起探討如何在日常生活的種種挑戰中，經由身體力行地實踐來探索書中所傳達的理念，讓朋友們可以更生活地將書中的想法落實。參與這個研討會是不需要閱讀這本書的，但我仍建議你不妨考慮在課前參閱這本書「存乎一心」。” By Jock McKeen, Feb. 1, 2022

「存乎一心」網上訂購參考https://www.books.com.tw/products/0010623486

活動形式
這一場兩小時的研討會您會享受到
Haven 共同創辦人 Dr. Jock McKeen與李文淑老師的精彩對話與雙語分享。
課後有限期30天的課程回放錄影連結。

這個活動是一個Zoom上的網路研討會，歡迎世界各地說中文或英文的朋友們一起加入！這個中英双語的研討會將有現場中文翻譯，學員們有機會可以在聊天室當中彼此互動。假如您無法在現場參與課程，我們鼓勵您仍然可以報名註冊，在課後幾天我們將會通知一個效期30天的課程錄影連結。

合作夥伴
這是一個加拿大海文和中國團隊的跨國合作！感謝双方的合作我們才有機會將海文精彩的課程持續地從加拿大本土推廣到全球的平台上。 建議您先下載WeChat軟體，所以您可以更方便地收到我們的課程錄影以及課程提醒。

主講人 About the Leaders
麥基卓 Jock McKeen
MD, LicAc (UK), DLitt

海文學院的聯合創始人兼該學院的榮譽教授，基卓也是一位多才多藝的主持人和作家。他最初是一名急診醫生，後來在英國牛津的中國針灸學院學習針灸。與黃煥祥共同建立了互補的醫療方法之後，他們合作創立了海文學院。他們開發了海文的核心課程，撰寫了大量的書籍，並四處旅行到許多國家分享他們的理念與經驗。煥祥和基卓多年來經常在亞洲任教，將他們的海文經驗帶給說中文的朋友們。您可以在專門介紹基卓及其畢生工作的維基百科頁面上 (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jock_McKeen) 閱讀有關基卓更多的信息。

Jock McKeen, co-founder, and Faculty Emeritus of The Haven is an accomplished presenter and author. Starting out as an emergency physician, he studied acupuncture at the College of Chinese Acupuncture, Oxford, England. After establishing a complementary medical practice in association with Bennet Wong, they collaborated in the development of The Haven. They developed the Core Programs at Haven, wrote numerous books, and travelled extensively to share their approach in many countries. Ben and Jock frequently taught in Asia for many years, bringing their Haven teaching to Chinese speaking people. You can read more about Jock at the Wikipedia entry devoted to him and his life’s work (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jock_McKeen).

翻譯/訪談
李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee
BA, BFA, MBA, DipC, CEC

文淑是一位熱情，專業，平易近人的導師，她擁有跨東西文化的豐富人生閱歷。她的教學以人性為出發點，在她熱情關懷和洞察人心的教學風格中，文淑有效整合了她的企業背景與生活經驗，巧妙地將教練領導，心理諮商，與創意啟發等不同的技巧融會應用於身心整合與全人啟發的人才培育工作中。多年來她在加拿大，中國大陸以及台灣教授個人成長以及領導力開發課程，引導學員從桎梏的個人模式中，轉化壓力為有效的資源，蛻變出每一個人的獨特魅力與全方位的領袖風範。文淑目前是加拿大著名的潛能開發學院 The Haven Institute 的董事以及核心導師，同時她是樂泉諮詢顧問公司The Train Coaching & Counseling Corp. 的創辦人。

Wenshwu is a passionate corporate trainer and coach; in her work, she is both personal and professional. She embraces life fully and keeps enriching herself in cross cultural environments. Her leading style is based on humanity, on which she effectively integrates business trainings with personal experiences. She applies ideas of coaching, counseling, and creativity in the series of heart-brain integrated leadership development programs. She leads and assists personal growth workshops and leadership programs in China, Taiwan, and Canada. In these programs Wenshwu witnesses many people breaking through fixated patterns, transforming suppression into useful resources, and living fully in their unique beings. Wenshwu is a Director on The Haven Board and a member on the Core Faculty. She is also the founder of The Train Coaching & Counseling Corp. in Taiwan.

The Everyday Practice of the Illuminated Heart

Join us to experience a cross-ocean dialogue and bilingual sharing between The Haven Co-Founder Dr. Jock McKeen and Wen-Shwu Lee: Daily Practice of the Illuminated Heart! Jock and his deceased partner Dr. Bennet Wong co-founded The Haven and co-designed a series of inspiring Haven core programs that have lasted over 40 years. In these programs, theoretical models and experiential exercises are based on Ben and Jock’s professional research and their living practices. “The Illuminated Heart” integrates Ben and Jock’s lifelong learning; this book was the final presentation of their co-creation just before Ben’s death. This webinar is a great opportunity to hear from Jock how he explores and applies the ideas in the book to his daily practice, and to learn from Wenshwu what she has incorporated into her own life.

“When Bennet Wong and I wrote The Illuminated Heart: Perspectives on East-West Psychology and Thought, we intended it to be a big reference book to show the source and details of our teachings. Our belief was (and mine still is) that people can use ideas and models and practices to enhance themselves, both in their daily lives, and in their professions. In this seminar, Wenshwu and I will discuss the challenge of establishing practices in your daily life that permit you to explore the ideas in the book. Although it is not necessary to have read the book, I recommend that you do read it before attending this session.”
By Dr. Jock McKeen, Feb. 1, 2022

Partnership
This program is a partnership between The Haven (Canada) and our China Team. We are grateful for the co-sponsorship so we can continue to offer transformational programs through The Haven and internationally. It is recommended that you download WeChat so that you can receive the recordings and program reminders more easily.

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青年领导力 – 在关系中成长茁壮 線上雙語課程

Youth Leadership – Relational Growth, Bilingual Online Program

| 導師：李文淑 ＆ Jamison Schulz-Franco
| 時間：Feb. 12, 13, 19, 20, 2022
| 人數：73

賈米森和我在 2022 年 2 月完成了這個有意義的課程。

在 2022 年 2 月我們進行的是「青年領導力」的第二階段：「在關係中成長茁壯」的主題，我們有 73 名學員報名註冊。 我們不斷從在地的中國團隊和參與學員那裡收到良好的反饋 — 他們的反饋主要圍繞著：這次課程的雙導師是跨代共同領導，還有主題的實用性，以及這是為年輕族群特別設計的課程，其中涵義深遠。

賈米森，我喜歡和你一起工作，很欣賞你如何一步一步地展現自己，並在你的熱情和真實中閃耀。 你的個人分享給人們留下了美好的印象。 希望你有信心和勇氣為你是誰感到自豪，並看到你在所選擇的專業中具有成為領導者的潛力。

最後也是重要的是中國團隊和加拿大海文團隊之間的團隊協作 — 我知道每一步都充滿挑戰，然而我們堅持不懈，從心底深處我感謝你們！

Jamison and I have accomplished this meaningful project in Feb. 2022.

On Part B in Feb. 2022, we have 73 registrants. We have been receiving good feedbacks from both the local team and the participants – their feedbacks are mostly around the cross-generational co-leadership, the practicality of the topics and the meaningfulness of this project.

Jamison, I enjoy working with you, and I appreciate how you step-by-step bringing yourself forth and shine in your passion and authenticity. Your personal sharing has left good impression on people. I wish you faith and courage to be proud of who you are and see your potential as a wonderful leader in your chosen profession.

Most importantly is the teamwork between the China Team and the Haven Team – I know every step is challenging and we are hanging in. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!

青年領導力 – 在關係中成長茁壯
Youth Leadership – Relational Growth

歡迎19~35歲的青年朋友們，一起加入我們共創生命的成長之路！
We welcome youth aged 19-35. Join us as we explore and co-create in the adventure of life!

通常我們會以我們所做的工作，我們的交友圈，或是我們的專業成就來定義自己。我們常被告知，年輕正是成長和改變的關鍵時期！我們也被期待著，在兼顧無數其他任務的『同時，』我們不要錯失了這關鍵的年輕時刻！現在加上當今政治和社會的動盪，抗爭衝突，以及全球疫情蔓延，年輕族群的生活真的變成了壓力，而不再是樂趣！無論清晰與否，我們對生活總有願景，我們規劃著如何向世界、向家人，或是向我們的伴侶證明自己。然而，面對這種種喘不過氣的壓力，學校與社會教育給年輕人的，似乎只是讓我們精進在個人的專業科目上，並沒有真正引導我們如何向內看，與自己的情感連結，面對失敗挫折，或者如何建立親密關係。在不了解自己的前提下，我們又怎麼知道自己想要什麼？

這個課程回應了上述的需求，是特別為19~35歲的年輕朋友們所設計的，它將指引只有一次年輕機會的您成為自己生命的領導人，您將學習如何掌握自己的生活。課程中會提供不同的工具，讓您與自己建立信任的關係，同時成長過程中許多與您有類似經歷的人，他們也有著內在的情緒，您會有機會與他人練習敞開心的對話。與他人真誠分享的美妙之處，就是讓您可以在相互支持的環境中真實展現自己，同時學習建立共同創造的人際關係。這個學習平台提供了安全的界限，讓夥伴們可以共同探索彼此的情緒和關係中面臨的挑戰。期待我們能ㄧ起為自己建立穩固的基礎，在這基礎之上我們可以成長，課程所學也將在您未來的人生持續產生助益。

這次課程我們難得請到跨代跨文化的双人組：六十歲來自台灣的李文淑搭配二十歲來自加拿大的傑米森！在領導力以及企業人才培育有長年經驗的文淑老師大家並不陌生，在此特別介紹年輕充滿活力的傑米森 (Jamison Schulz-Franco)給大家認識：傑米森和文淑目前都是海文學院的董事，可以猜測得到傑米森是目前海文最年輕的董事。傑米森之前多次參與協助加拿大海文學院的青年領導力課程，在那些工作經驗中他了解到，他的恐懼很大的程度抑制了他對冒險的渴望。他指出，在探索自己的渴望時感到內疚，直到他學會真實表達他的恐懼，他才真正發掘出自己的特質。渴望是深入未知領域的探索 — 與蹣跚學步的我們在學會自由奔跑時的內在喜悅重新連結，夢想著我們成年後會做的驚人的事情。如果我們壓抑自己的渴望，就會對自己和所愛的人感到麻木。這個精彩的課程提供了一個安全的時空來探索我們的內在世界，同時學習創造健康持久並且令人滿意的關係。

我們將深入探索關係的互動與成長 — 通過了解自己，我們得以了解他人，我們將學習如何與自己、彼此和世界共存。在健康關係的基礎上，我們能夠溝通連結，建立親密的關係。加入我們！讓我們一起敞開心來探討有關同理心、界限等重要的主題！

每堂課都會針對不同主題做探索，課間我們也邀請您針對所學做反思，這些探索會在彼此尊重的氛圍中進行，每個人的選擇都將被尊重。課程進行的方式包括：

  • 律動，呼吸及當下覺察的練習
  • 課程簡報及主題講述
  • 創意與經驗式學習
  • 小組分享與互動
  • 大組問答
  • 回家作業身體力行

課程主題與重點

  • 青年領導人的溝通藝術 Communication & Connection – 如何在不同意與衝突立場中保持好奇
  • 青年領導人的親密關係 Intimate Relationship – 如何在關係中既有連結做自己
  • 性的兩種面向：愛與欲求 Love and Desire – 什麼是愛？什麼是欲求？創造健康關係中平衡學習的機會
  • 青年領導人所面臨的世紀挑戰 World Challenges – 我們的未來在那裡？我們可以做些什麼？

合作夥伴
這是一個加拿大海文和中國團隊的跨國合作！感謝双方的合作我們才有機會將海文精彩的課程持續地從加拿大本土推廣到全球的平台上。

So often we define ourselves by our jobs, our friend groups, our occupations, and our accomplishments. As young people we are told that we are in a crucial period of growth and change, yet the expectation is that we do that while managing a thousand other tasks, all at once. When you pile on political and social upheaval, war and conflict, and a worldwide pandemic, life can become more of a stress than a pleasure. Whether we know it or not, we have a vision for our lives, mapping out how we want to prove ourselves to the world, to our families and to our partners. In school we are told about all the careers that we may follow to fulfill us, but we are not taught how to check-in with our emotional center, how to face our failures or frustrations, or how to be intimate with others. How are we supposed to know what we want in our lives, without truly knowing ourselves first?
This program responds to the above questions, and it’s designed for our youth friends aged 19 to 35. It offers a guide for you to be your own leader so that you can lead your own life. We offer tools to create a trusting relationship with yourself while having open conversations with others who are experiencing the emotions of early adulthood alongside you. The beauty of sharing yourself with others is that you learn to co-create relationships with people who support you to bring your most authentic self forward. This platform is offered so that we have a safe space to explore our emotions and our relationships, to create a foundation of ourselves that we can work with and continue to work from for the rest of our lives.

We have unique cross-generational co-leadership team in this program: 61-year-old Wen-Shwu Lee and 21-year-old Jamison Schulz-Franco. You may know Wen-Shwu who has spent many years devoting herself to leadership training and emotional development programs at the Haven. We are excited to introduce Jamison, who like Wen-Shwu, is also a Director on the Haven Board. From his previous experiences facilitating the Haven Youth Leadership programs, Jamison has learned how much his fears withhold his desire for adventure. He notes that he has felt guilt in exploring his desires, and it wasn’t until he voiced his fears that he has been able to discover and be in his element. Jamison realizes desire is exploring the unknown – a reconnection to the joyful voice within that we let run free as toddlers, dreaming of the amazing things we would do as adults. If we suppress our desires, we can feel numb to ourselves and our loved ones. This program offers a safe space to explore our internal states, while learning to create truly fulfilling relationships that are healthy and sustainable.

In February 2022, we will explore relational growth (the idea that by learning about ourselves we learn about others). How can we be present with ourselves, each other, and the world? At a healthy relationship’s foundation, we find communication, connection, and intimacy. Join us as we have an open conversation around empathy, boundaries and more!

Each session will focus on different topics, and you will be invited to continue your reflections in the time between sessions. These explorations will take place in an atmosphere of respect, where every person’s choice is honored. The format will include:

  • Embodied movement, breathing and mindfulness exercises
  • Lectures and presentations
  • Experiential exercises
  • Small group sharing and reflections
  • Big group Q&A
  • Take home practices

Topics and Highlights

  • Communication & Connection – How to remain curious in conflicts and amidst differences.
  • Intimate Relationship – The dance between being me and being in relationship.
  • Love and Desire – What is love and what is desire – finding balance in healthy relationships.
  • World Challenges – Where are we headed and what can we do?

Partnership
This program is a partnership between The Haven (Canada) and our China Team. We are grateful of the co-sponsorship so we can continue to offer transformational programs through The Haven and internationally. It is recommended that you download WeChat so that you can receive the recordings and program reminders more easily.

導師簡介


傑米森 Jamison Schulz-Franco
傑米森最近畢業於加拿大多倫多的瑞爾森大學。他在加拿大海文學院的經典課程『聚光燈下的孩子』和『青少年潛力甦醒』有超過十五年的參與以及實習經驗。從大學最後一年開始，傑米森希望分享他在情緒覺察上的體驗，他希望與朋友和同事之間開啟更開放並有益身心健康的對話。作為一個混血兒，傑米森堅定的倡導種族平等、公正和包容，他對人性化的連結充滿了熱情。 傑米森最近開始與加拿大維多利亞移民和難民中心工作，這是一個橫跨不列顛哥倫比亞省的反種族主義和反仇恨工作組織。

Jamison Schulz-Franco is a recent graduate of Ryerson University in Toronto, Canada. He has over 15 years of experience as a participant and an intern in both Kids in the Spotlight and Teens Alive at the Haven. Through his final year of university and beyond, Jamison hopes to share his experience in emotional awareness programs to open a more open mental health dialogue for his friends and peers. As a mixed-race individual, Jamison is a strong advocate for racial equality, equity, and inclusion, and has a passion for human connection. Jamison recently started work with the Victoria Immigration and Refugee Centre Society in the Resilience Hub – an anti-racism and hate network across British Columbia.


李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee
心理諮商文憑、企業教練碩士認證、企管碩士、藝術學士、文學士、身心整合夫妻療癒認證、身體經驗創傷療法認證
CEC, Dip-C, MBA, BFA, BA, PACT Level II Certification, SE Intermediate II/III Certification

加拿大The Haven學院核心導師
加拿大The Haven學院前董事
加拿大The Haven學院前中國實習生總監

文淑是一位熱情，專業，平易近人的導師。她擁有跨越東西文化的豐富人生閱歷，她的教學以人性為出發點，在她熱情關懷以及洞察人心的教學風格中，文淑有效地整合了她的專業背景與生活經驗，並巧妙地將心理咨商，教練領導，創意啓發，身體經驗，夫妻成長，等不同的學說和技巧融會應用於身心整合的全人發展工作中。多年來她在大中國地區，北美，以及全球的線上平台上教授個人及專業成長課程，引導學員從桎梏的模式，轉化壓力挑戰為有效資源，蛻變為每人的獨特魅力與健康人際關係。在加拿大著名的潛能開發機構海文學院，文淑是唯一的一位華人被認可進入海文的核心導師, 在台灣她也是樂泉咨詢顧問公司的創辦人。

Wenshwu is passionate as an educator and a life coach. She is both personal and professional. She embraces life fully and keeps enriching herself in cross-cultural environment. Her leadership style is based on humanity, on which she effectively integrates her professional trainings with personal experiences. She applies various schools of learning: coaching, counseling, creativity, SE (Somatic Experiencing), and PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy) in the series of heart-brain integrated personal and professional development programs. She designs and leads onsite workshops and online programs in greater China area, north America, and around the globe. In these programs Wenshwu witnesses so many people breaking through fixated patterns, transforming suppression to useful resources, and living fully in their unique beings. Wenshwu is so far the only Chinese approved to the Haven Core Faculty. She is also the founder of The Train Coaching & Counseling Corp. in Taiwan.

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啟動向前的力量 虎虎生風迎新年 線上募款講座

Step Forth into the Year of TIGER, Online Funding Raising

| 主講：李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee
| 時間：Feb. 6, 2022
| 人數：81

以下提供此次募款講座的總結報告。 我們有 81 人註冊，2022 年 2 月 6 日當天大約有 70 人上線。我們收到了非常積極正向的學員反饋，大家都很開心我們有機會在線上連結，並為虎年一起做好準備！ 活動當天我們有幾位說英語的朋友加入，因此活動仍然是以中英雙語進行的。 雖然我們從這兩個小時的講座中沒有太多實質金錢的收入，但這次的活動旨在與海文朋友們連結，並且是一場公益活動，希望回贈給在充滿挑戰的歲月中一直支持著The Haven 海文學院的所有朋友們。

Hereafter I’m providing the summary report of the subject program. We have 81 signed up and around 70 came online on Feb. 5, 2022. We received very positive feedbacks and people appreciated the opportunity to connect and get ready for the Year of Tiger! We had a couple English- speaking friends on the event day so the event remained bilingual! Although we don’t have much income from these two hours talk, and the program meant to connect and give back to our participants who have been supporting Haven during these challenging years.

在线：啟動向前的力量 – 虎虎生風迎新年！
与李文淑老師一起
2022年2月6日上午10-12點

对于许多个人、家庭和企业来说，2021 年是充满挑战的一年。这个活動是一个很好的机会，讓我們回顾、反思并找到值得庆祝的希望，活動會在相互分享和連結的过程中進行 — 連結共創，这就是 Haven 最擅长的！

加入我们，如果您 …

  • 想以一种有意义的方式与人相处
  • 想与新老朋友一起庆祝一年的变化
  • 想支持 Haven 的经济援助计划
  • 正在寻找 2022 年的灵感
  • 想要一些新的观点

活動亮点：

  • 聽聽文淑老師對「啟動向前」在專業上以及個人經驗上的分享
  • 經由瞑想練習，互動討論，大組問答，學員們有機會反思或处理2021年的起起落落，啟動邁向2022的行動力！
  • 与其他精彩的學員互動連結
  • 讓我們一起舉杯迎新！

費用：
50.00 加元 – 這個活動的实际价值。
您可以選擇自由付費：1.00 加元至 49.00 加元！
免费也行！

日期和时间：
2 月 6 日星期日，中國標準时间上午10-12 点 CST
2 月 5 日星期六，太平洋时间傍晚6-8 点 PT

地點：
Zoom線上

联系方式：
注册請洽 register@haven.ca

導師簡介
李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee

李文淑：企業教練碩士認證, 心理諮商文憑, 企管碩士, 藝術學士, 文學士
文淑是一位熱情，專業，平易近人的導師，她擁有跨東西文化的豐富人生閱歷。她的教學以人性為出發點，在她熱情關懷和洞察人心的教學風格中，文淑有效整合了她的企業背景與生活經驗，巧妙地將教練領導，心理諮商，與創意啟發等不同的技巧融會應用於身心整合與全人啟發的人才培育工作中。多年來她在加拿大，中國大陸以及台灣教授個人成長以及領導力開發課程，引導學員從桎梏的個人模式中，轉化壓力為有效的資源，蛻變出每一個人的獨特魅力與全方位的領袖風範。文淑目前是加拿大著名的潛能開發學院 The Haven Institute 的董事以及核心導師，同時她是樂泉諮詢顧問公司The Train Coaching & Counseling Corp. 的創辦人。

Wen-Shwu Lee: CEC, Dip-C, MBA, BFA, BA, is an enthusiastic, professional, and approachable program leader. She has a rich life experience across Eastern and Western cultures. Her teaching is based on human nature. In her warm, caring, and insightful teaching style, Wen-Shwu has effectively integrated her corporate background and life experience, blending different skills such as coaching leadership, psychological counseling, and creative inspiration in the cultivation of physical and mental integration and holistic growth work. For many years, she has been leading and co-leading program in Canada, China, and Taiwan. Her growth programs and leadership development courses have guided many people transforming pressure or fixation into effective resources in discovery of individual’s unique charm and leadership style. Wen-Shwu is currently one of the Directors on The Haven Board and a member of The Haven Core Faculty. She is also the founder of The Train Coaching & Counseling Corp. in Taiwan.

Online: Stepping Forth into the Year of TIGER!

2021 has been another challenging year for many individuals, families, and businesses. This program is a wonderful opportunity to review, reflect and find some silver linings to celebrate, all in the process of sharing and connecting with each other – this is what Haven does best!

Come join us if…

  • You want to be with people in a meaningful way.
  • You want to mark the changing of the year with friends, old and new.
  • You want to support Haven’s Financial Aid program.
  • You are looking for inspiration for 2022.
  • You want some new perspectives.

Program Highlights:

  • Listen to Wen-Shwu’s experience sharing on “Stepping Forth!”
  • Through embodied visualization, interactive discussions in small groups, and large group questions and answers, participants can
  • reflect on or to deal with the ups and downs of 2021 and start their actions towards 2022!
  • Interactive connections with other wonderful participants
  • Let us toast to the new year together!

Fee:
CAD$50.00 is the worth of the event.
You can choose to pay any amount, CAD$1~49!
You are also welcome to join us for free!

Time:
Feb. 6, Sunday, 10-12 am, CST
Feb. 5, Saturday, 6-8 pm, PT

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友誼與超越：瑪麗亞和琳達的旅程 線上雙語講座

Friendship and Beyond: Maria and Linda’s Journey ~ Bilingual Online Webinar

| 講師：琳達·尼科爾斯 Linda Nicholls
| 日期：Dec. 19, 2021
| 學員：680人

謝謝您的支持與參與！Thank you for your support!
Haven團隊想表達我們對您衷心的感謝，感謝您加入 Linda Nicholls 在2021年十二月所講述有關她與 Maria Gomori 之間友誼的動人談話。

謝謝您的支持與參與！

這個活動總共有 680 人註冊，其中420 人加入我們當天的現場直播。在您的幫助下，我們籌集了超過 30,000 加元（150,000 元人民幣）來幫助 Haven 度過這個充滿挑戰的時刻 ！

加拿大 Haven 團隊還想對我們的中國團隊在這個活動上的支持表示我們深深的感謝 — 沒有你們，我們不可能做到的！特別感謝 Wei-Wei (Eric) 的翻譯 — 這是一項艱鉅的工作，而您做得這麼好。

我們的學員來自五大洲，覆蓋了世界許多角落，例如：
歐洲——法國、意大利、瑞士
北美 – 加拿大（從東海岸到西海岸）和美國
中美洲 – 哥斯達黎加
大洋洲 – 新西蘭、澳大利亞
亞洲 – 中國、馬來西亞、新加坡、日本、香港、台灣，等不同城市或地區。

再次感謝您！
寄上我們熱情地和所有的愛，

Haven團隊

We at Haven want to express our sincere and heart-felt gratitude to you for joining Linda Nicholls’ moving conversation about her friendship with Maria Gomori.

Thank you!

In total, 680 people registered and 420 were able to join us live. With your help, we raised just over $30,000 CAD (RMB$150,000) to help support Haven in this challenging time!!

The Canada Haven team also wants to express our deep gratitude to the China team for their support in making this program happen – we could not have done it without you! And a special thanks to Wei-Wei (Eric) for translation – it was a big job and you handled it with grace.

The participants were from five continents covering different corners on the globe, including:

Europe – France, Italy, Switzerland
North America – Canada (from coast to coast) and USA
Central America – Costa Rica
Oceania – New Zealand, Australia
Asia – China, Malaysia, Singapore, Japan, Hong Kong, Taiwan, and other cities and areas.

Thank you again!
Warmly and with all our Loving,

The Haven Team




學員回饋 Participant‘s Feedbacks

王勇剛 Oscar, Dec. 19, 2021
今天听到Linda老师分享的，和Maria老师长达37年友谊旅程中的真实故事，特别感动和温暖。她们是那样的真实，靠近，生活化，会争吵、说闲话、闲扯、一起逛街买衣服，会因为难以聚焦而偏离计划，会觉得时间不够用 …，好像就是我们身边的邻家老太太，吵了又和好的好闺蜜一样。对彼此足够敞开和真实，不在关系中退缩，不用伪装成受害者去讨好对方，停止指责自我负责。冲突时选择把什么放在第一位？是友谊、连结、对对方的爱，还是自尊或面子？并好奇对方那样选择的原因，底层有怎样的价值观或信念？也放下要去改变对方的期待。我听到在Linda看来，Maria内在对于萨提亚和家庭治疗的热爱与承诺，对世界与生活充满着热情与好奇，是她长寿且充满活力的关键。让我们记得，不管怎样，都要去做真实的自己，活出自己的一致性。

Today I heard Linda’s sharing of the true stories of her 37-year friendship journey with Maria. I was particularly moved and feeling warm. They were so real, close, and down to their everyday life. They would quarrel, gossip, chatty, or go shopping and buy clothes. They would deviate from their planning and were difficult to stay focus. They found there was not enough time… It seems they are the old ladies next to us, who fight with each other and then make peace as good friends. They were open and congruent with each other. They didn’t withdraw themselves from their relationship. They didn’t pretend to be victims to please each other. They found ways to stop accusing and became self-responsible. What do we choose to put first in conflicts? Is it friendship, connection, love for each other, or self-esteem or keeping face? And be curious about the underneath reason of the other person’s choice; what kind of values ​​or beliefs does the other person have? Also let go the expectations of changing the other person! I heard from Linda’s perspective that Maria’s profound love and commitment to Satir Family Therapy, and her passion and curiosity about the world and life are the keys to her longevity and vitality. Let us remember, no matter what, let’s be true to ourselves and live alive in our congruency.

五月胡（胡雪梅）, Dec. 19, 2021
2021/12/19今天是我的生日，没想到在线上听Linda导师同玛丽亚导师的分享会度过。两位心理学大师之间也会吵架，也会做一些不顾对方的事情，然后又回到关系中，我顿时觉得对自己的批判少多了。突然反观到，我以前在关系中，面对对方的愤怒生气吵架，我总是很紧张。防卫模式和攻击指责模式便在这儿启动。感受到玛丽亚老师的灵动感，即使惹到对方生气远离，我也仍然可以回到关系中，说我后悔了，重新去面对。对方的暴怒也没有什么太可怕的，心里多了一些允许，多了一眯眯的空间。这些微允许和空间的突然出现，对我特别宝贵。说到玛利亚导师是怎么面对死亡时，我突然感觉自己和世界的连接大了一圈，感觉自己面对世界有了一点敞开感，视野好像也突然开阔了，虽然尚未看见什么，但我感受到连接已经开始有一点建立了。同时我也可以借由对世界的好奇感连接生命。谢谢连接发生在我生日的这一天，对我很有意义。

Today is my birthday, and I didn’t expect to spend my day online listening to the sharing of Linda and Maria. These two great psychologists also quarreled with each other, and would do something regardless to the other, and then return to their relationship. I suddenly sense that I am less critical of myself. Quickly and reflectively, I realize that I was always nervous when facing anger and quarrel in my past relationships. My defensive mode and attack accusation mode were activated then. I can sense the congruence and present flexibility of Maria – even if I annoyed the other person and the person stayed away, I could still return to the relationship, say I regret it, and face it again. There was nothing too terrifying about the other person’s rage. There was a little more permission in my heart, and there was more room for squinting. The momentary realization of these little permission and space is extremely precious to me. Speaking of how Maria faced death, I suddenly felt that I was connected to the world a bit bigger, and I felt a little open to the world, and my vision seemed to have suddenly widened. Although I haven’t seen anything yet, I feel that the connection has begun to happen little by little. At the same time, I can connect to life through my curiosity about the world. Thank you, the connection happened on this day of my birthday. It is very meaningful to me.

《友谊与超越:琳达与玛莉亚的旅程》
-玛莉亚‧葛茉利Maria Gomori & 琳达·尼科尔斯Linda Nicholls –

中国时间2021年12月19日
（上午10:00-11:30）

緣起
非常哀恸地我们通知大家：Maria Gomori 已于 2021 年 12 月 10 日安祥离世。由于她对Haven的深爱，以及她希望海文能在全球疫情压力中幸存，因此在她临别前告诉Linda，一定要按原定计划坚持完成这次的募款活动。这场演讲谈论的是她与琳达之间的友谊，玛丽亚也特别交待了琳达她想让琳达讲述哪些故事。

欢迎你的加入，一起来参与这场引人入胜的分享， 一起见证两位智者传奇的生命故事及她们深厚友谊，一起聆听她们的：

  • 生命与关系
  • 亲密与友谊
  • 成长与智慧
  • 从相同点连接，在不同点成长

玛莉亚‧葛茉利在她的生活中几乎没有「女性朋友」。然而，30 多年前，当她和弗吉尼亚萨蒂尔一起在海文学院时，她遇到了琳达·尼科尔斯。她们来自截然不同的文化和教育背景，但随着时间的推移，她们建立了密切而持久的联系。她们曾在加拿大和中国合作，共同创建许多工作坊（包括 「过渡」这个课程）。她们也分享了许多的旅行与冒险，包括几个欧洲和南美国家、墨西哥、纽约市、蒙特利尔和以色列。她们有热爱自由和终身学习的共同价值观。Maria 和 Linda 持续发现她们之间的相同与不同之处，从而启发彼此对话并深入探索，也进一步丰富了她们之间的关系。
欢迎加入玛丽亚和琳达的行列，聆听她们的故事，故事中她们一起欢笑，同意彼此间的不同，相互爱戴并支持，跨越时空地连接彼此，同时也共创了她们持久的友谊。

主讲导师
Linda Nicholls
琳达·尼科尔斯
心理学博士、加拿大海文学院心理咨询师资格证书获得者，海文学院首席团体课程导师。曾任加拿大海文学院行政总裁，现为加拿大海文学院第一梯队首席讲师和心理咨询师，主要带领《潜力苏醒》、《阶段一：自我觉察》、《阶段二：自我与他人》和《界限》、《阴影》、《生命力的觉察》、《超越局限 拓展新视野》等加拿大海文学院核心课程。琳达从事企业管理、行销30余年，担任欧美多家大型公司的高级顾问、教练导师、训练师，并曾服务于IBM、微软、加拿大政府等诸多机构、组织。琳达学习和应用心理学三十多年，有成功带领近千场工作坊之经验。

琳达擅长将心理学与个人生命经验的内省相结合，用生活和工作本身来观照理论；在处理个案时既能与学员慷慨分享自己丰富的情感与敏锐的同理心，同时又能用简明的理论来分析问题所在，让学员接纳和享受情感，然后带着觉察满足而归。因为这样的功力和职业背景，琳达在Haven学院、北美和世界各地的讲学中受到广泛的赞扬和爱戴。她与【中国●海文学院】合作十几年时间，担任近百场工作坊的主任导师。她以自己的专业为华为、居易联盟等众多中国企业提供组织培训服务，支持个人、团队、组织取得卓越而持续的进步。她的专业呈现与个人风范在学员中享有优秀口碑。

课程翻译
刘委伟
纽约大学Inner MBA（在读）
加拿大The Haven学院资深翻译
咨询师

2010年起，受训于加拿大The Haven学院国际心理咨询专业课程，2015年起在课程中担任翻译。
2018年起，跟随伯克利大学脑神经科学家Rick Hanson博士学习，接受正向脑神经重塑系统培训。
2021年9月，纽约大学 inner MBA。
2021年6月，哈佛大学Martha Beck博士Practical Way Finding Coaching培训。

委伟是一位专业的翻译和持续学习的咨询师，他既有一颗温暖柔软的心，又有一个思维缜密、逻辑清晰大脑，常常让前来咨询的学员感受到来自情感和智慧的双重滋养和启发。
他在加拿大海文亲密关系学院有将近10年的专业的学习和翻译经验，目前正在跟随伯克利大学Rick Hanson博士学习正向脑神经重塑课程，并在纽约大学Inner MBA项目中学习进修。他立志服务于这个世界，减少人们心灵的苦难，提升学员和客户的幸福感。